[Utilizer]

Lol! THANK YOU!!! For being an honest enough woman to admait what it has taken Me years to understand. *smile* I do not make the distinction to demean the fair sex in any way, merely to illustrate what I have finally come to understand and what any woman knows at the most fundamental level. *grin* In My interactions with women (both dating and on the 'friendship' level) there are certain truths that have come forth, and now that I am beginning to understand them much more succintly I find that I understand women more than some feel comfortable with. *wince* I am glad that you are one of the ones that can honestly admit what a difference there is between the genders, as I believe that only with such an understanding can we form the lifelong bonds that we (or at least, 'I') aspire to.

Plus, I am having a lot more fun with the girls now that I understand where their impetus stems from. Not to mention making the occasional waitress blush, lol!

Now how to make the guys understand...

*smile*

[Pukin Dog]

All these posts about men not understanding women is depressing. Women are not difficult to understand at all.

Here it is, so get ready for it:

First, women want everything, and they want it right now. Their confusion comes from not being able to prioritize what they want into a simple list from 1 to 100 things. Items on their want list are in constant motion, preventing them from stopping long enough to have a reasoned thought.

Men make the mistake of trying to tell women what they should want, or cant have, resulting in hatred or resentment.

Any man wishing to enter a long term relationship with a woman must be prepared to just give them what they want and shutup about it. Expect nothing in return, because she is using your stuff to build a nest, and a man's presence in it is not necessarily a given.

Its all about the nest, and the coming chicks. Your job as a man is to supply building materials. A man's reward is that the chicks (hopefully) will grow up and look like him.

That's it. That's all there is. She is literally a pickup truck, so he better be Home Depot, or it aint gonna work.

"But Pukin, what about 'love'?"

Get real, people. Love never did anything but mess up your credit.