I remember a Lt Col pilot getting an Article 15 (Administrative punishment) for having an adulterous affair with a civilian chick.
His drop-dead gorgeous Major-pilot wife was in my command so I would see her around occasionally. They had 2 young kids, and the best I recall they managed to stay together.
But every time I saw her I would think to myself "if I met that asshole I'd like to deck him for doing such a thing to her".
just noted your tag line - Kitano is a favorite of mine. Oddly enough one of his ' newer ' films is the one I first saw him in: Kikujiro. A real beauty of a movie and a real favorite of mine.