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See Dick call. See Jane text. Why parents are giving in to children's requests for cell phones
Star Ledger ^ | 12.10.06 | KELLY HEYBOER

Posted on 01/01/2007 1:45:53 PM PST by Coleus

Joe Skarimbas was just learning to read when he decided he was ready to join the digital age. "When he went to first grade he said, 'When am I going to get a cell phone?'" said Joe's mother, Tara Skarimbas.

The Leonia family decided to hold off on getting young Joe a phone until he turns 10 and starts walking home from school alone. But his mother understands the temptation to get her son, who turns 8 this month, a cell phone as soon as possible.

"Just for safety purposes," she said, glancing toward the new Disney Mobile kiosk during a shopping trip to the Paramus Park mall last week.

As the adult and teenage cell phone market becomes saturated, cell phone companies are targeting younger and younger users. This holiday season several companies -- including Disney, Verizon, TicTalk and Firefly -- are pushing brightly colored cell phones specially designed for children as young as kindergartners.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: cellphones; consumerculture; consumerism; culturewar; instantgratification; parentsnotfriends; tweens
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To: null and void
In my experience, kids tend to "miss the bus" somewhat more frequently if they know that they can dial up Mom and get a ride home whenever they feel like it.

Kids who end up stranded some place have a tendency not to "miss the bus" next time.

Cell phones are often (not always) a crutch which enables bad behavior.

61 posted on 01/01/2007 2:32:54 PM PST by ClearCase_guy (Enoch Powell was right.)
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To: skimask
Have they made us more productive? Other things like microwave ovens, permanent press clothes, food processors and such have made our lives easier but a cell phone just complicates things more.

This is what kills me - all the conveniences you mentioned & so many more - and it seems like we have LESS free time than ever! People used to have time to sit on their porches in rockers, snap string beans & talk to people walking by. Time to bake a cake from scratch & write letters. Now, we all run around like gerbils on treadmills - running our tails off & never getting it all done.

62 posted on 01/01/2007 2:35:35 PM PST by alicewonders
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To: alicewonders

You run the technology or the technology runs you.


63 posted on 01/01/2007 2:36:49 PM PST by durasell (!)
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To: Nathan Zachary
I think my youngest has actually seen a couple of pay phones.
64 posted on 01/01/2007 2:37:39 PM PST by null and void (Propaganda doesn't have to make sense. Hell, it often works better if it doesn't.)
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To: sitetest

Where in the world do they find anyone to play with? All the other kids are sitting indoors playing their video games and eating junk food. It's no wonder kids are so unhealthy these days.


65 posted on 01/01/2007 2:39:02 PM PST by Nathan Zachary
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To: I see my hands
Just wondering...why are your posts in a box?

I sign off with FMCDH(BITS) for my own reason. Just curious about yours.

FMCDH(BITS)

66 posted on 01/01/2007 2:39:27 PM PST by nothingnew (I fear for my Republic due to marxist influence in our government. Open eyes/see)
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To: Coleus

Very few people "need" a cell phone. The question is will it enhance some part of your life. I can list you all the annoyances I have seen with cell phones, but if I had little kids, I'd get them one. It puts me in direct contact with them and vis a verse. And that's a good thing.


67 posted on 01/01/2007 2:39:31 PM PST by carolinalivin
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To: ClearCase_guy
True. Mine managed to get himself home on the late bus, but as he had been involved in a rock throwing fight that morning we were quite concerned when he hadn't shown up.

One of the school officials assured him they would call his home and let mom know he'd be late. They didn't. He was blissfully unaware that we had any concerns...
68 posted on 01/01/2007 2:42:49 PM PST by null and void (Propaganda doesn't have to make sense. Hell, it often works better if it doesn't.)
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To: null and void
My son's middle school (in an upscale Silicon Valley neighborhood) has a full time campus Cop.

Even an on-campus cop wouldn't have the legal power to seize private property and demand money for its return. Fines are the in jurisdiction of the judiciary.

69 posted on 01/01/2007 2:43:30 PM PST by John Jorsett (scam never sleeps)
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To: Coleus
"no child under 18 needs a cell phone. we all grew up and survived without them."

Both my kids in their mid-20's never had cell phones as kids as the technology was new and prices were atrocious. My 15 year old step-daughter has had one since she was 13 and I'm glad she does. I can call her at any moment I feel like it. If my older kids had had cell phones I wouldn't have worried as much, even though nothing ever happened to them.

When you have kids you worry and cell phones help a lot. Just because we didn't have them doesn't mean we have to be irresponsible and not keep track of our kids now.

70 posted on 01/01/2007 2:43:35 PM PST by DaGman
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To: John Jorsett

Like photoradar?


71 posted on 01/01/2007 2:45:16 PM PST by null and void (Propaganda doesn't have to make sense. Hell, it often works better if it doesn't.)
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To: ClearCase_guy
Kids who end up stranded some place have a tendency not to "miss the bus" next time.

Excellent! That's really all this crap is about anyways, isn't it? PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY

FMCDH(BITS)

72 posted on 01/01/2007 2:45:39 PM PST by nothingnew (I fear for my Republic due to marxist influence in our government. Open eyes/see)
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To: null and void

You can still fight traffic cam violations in court. Paying the fine is an option if you don't want to dispute it, but the cops can't tell you that you have no choice but to cough up the money.


73 posted on 01/01/2007 2:49:37 PM PST by John Jorsett (scam never sleeps)
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To: John Jorsett

Point conceded.


74 posted on 01/01/2007 2:51:23 PM PST by null and void (Propaganda doesn't have to make sense. Hell, it often works better if it doesn't.)
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To: Nathan Zachary

Dear Nathan Zachary,

Well, most days they play with each other.

But once or twice a week, most weeks, they play with children of other homeschooling families. We host chess club on Tuesdays, which always starts out as chess, but often evolves into other activities, including tag, touch football, etc. Once a week, there's a regular get together for outdoor fun with a few families.

We had a Christmas Chess Party on the day after Christmas, and we had about 20 kids.

However, otherwise, you're right. Our neighborhood often seems deserted. Kids are seldom found playing outside. I guess they're all inside with the Playstation or whatever.

A few months back, one of my 12 year-old's baseball team friends came over to our house for a "playdate." The fellow was a bit overwhelmed by our house (he and his mother - divorced - live in a basement apartment nearby), but his eyes fell out of his head when he saw our plain old 31" TV with rabbit ears on top.

He commented, "You may have a way bigger house, but we have a way bigger TV. And I'd rather have the bigger TV."

We all chuckled once he left.


sitetest


75 posted on 01/01/2007 2:53:41 PM PST by sitetest (If Roe is not overturned, no unborn child will ever be protected in law.)
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To: Texas_shutterbug
Our kids have cell phones - pay as you go plan and we have no conflicts - T-Mobile has $50 for 400 mins and so far so good.

But

Cell phones are dangerous emitters of Rf energy. They will be identified as a strong source of brain deterioration when the insurance plans start paying out for brain diseases the way they did for smoking related illnesses.

76 posted on 01/01/2007 2:54:35 PM PST by x_plus_one (Allah has no son.)
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To: nothingnew
As poor as my posts are in any case, I think they are better inside rather than outside.

Highlight for secret message:

You will soon have FreepMail.

77 posted on 01/01/2007 2:54:47 PM PST by I see my hands (_8(|)
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To: freespirited
" I only use my cell phone for emergencies. IOW almost never, maybe 4-10 minutes a year. This type of thing is perfect: no monthly bill, just buy some minutes once a year.

I do the same thing, except you have to buy minutes at least once every 40 days or else you loose the unused ones. Still, it only amounts to $10 a month on average, and I end up with a lot of minutes piled up. I get enough phone at work, i refuse to have one glued to my ear everywhere I go.

78 posted on 01/01/2007 2:58:38 PM PST by Nathan Zachary
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To: Coleus

The headline has it backwards. Guys hate to talk on the phone, they text. Girls talk first, text second.


79 posted on 01/01/2007 2:59:09 PM PST by gcruse (http://garycruse.blogspot.com/)
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To: Coleus

We all grew up in a totally different world!
I'm 78. I walked the three miles to town and
back when I was 7 and 8. No problems.

My kids walked to school and home for years.
Walked wherever they needed to go. No problems.

My Grandkids walked eveywhere or got rides
to the shopping centers. No problems.

My GREATKIDS play on our residential street
and at the park a block away. We do NOT live
in a slum area. There are at least 15
registered sex predators within 8 blocks of
my home, two living across the street from
the park and 4 within two blocks of the school.
My Greatkids have phones!

Don't advise me to call the police. They
know exactly who and where everybody is.
Nothing they can do about it.


80 posted on 01/01/2007 3:00:26 PM PST by Grendel9
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