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Gay and Evangelical, Seeking Paths of Acceptance
New York Times ^ | 12 December 2006 | By NEELA BANERJEE

Posted on 12/12/2006 5:12:42 PM PST by shrinkermd

Justin Lee believes that the Virgin birth was real, that there is a heaven and a hell, that salvation comes through Christ alone and that he, the 29-year-old son of Southern Baptists, is an evangelical Christian.

Just as he is certain about the tenets of his faith, Mr. Lee also knows he is gay, that he did not choose it and cannot change it.

To many people, Mr. Lee is a walking contradiction, and most evangelicals and gay people alike consider Christians like him horribly deluded about their faith. “I’ve gotten hate mail from both sides,” said Mr. Lee, who runs gaychristian.net, a Web site with 4,700 registered users that mostly attracts gay evangelicals.

The difficulty some evangelicals have in coping with same-sex attraction was thrown into relief on Sunday when the pastor of a Denver megachurch, the Rev. Paul Barnes, resigned after confessing to having sex with men. Mr. Barnes said he had often cried himself to sleep, begging God to end his attraction to men.

His departure followed by only a few weeks that of the Rev. Ted Haggard, then the president of the National Association of Evangelicals and the pastor of a Colorado Springs megachurch, after a male prostitute said Mr. Haggard had had a relationship with him for three years...

...A lot of people are freaked out because their only exposure to evangelicalism was a bad one, and a lot ask, ‘Why would you want to be part of a group that doesn’t like you very much?’ ” Mr. Lee said. “But it’s not about membership in groups. It’s about what I believe. Just because some people who believe the same things I do aren’t very loving doesn’t mean I stop believing what I do.”

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...If by gay evangelical is meant someone who claims both to abide by the authority of Scripture and to engage in a self-affirming manner in homosexual unions, then the concept gay evangelical is a contradiction,” Robert A. J. Gagnon, associate professor of New Testament at Pittsburgh Theological Seminary, said in an e-mail message.

“Scripture clearly, pervasively, strongly, absolutely and counterculturally opposes all homosexual practice,” Dr. Gagnon said. “I trust that gay evangelicals would argue otherwise, but Christian proponents of homosexual practice have not made their case from Scripture.”

In fact, both sides look to Scripture. The debate is largely over seven passages in the Bible about same-sex couplings. Mr. Gagnon and other traditionalists say those passages unequivocally condemn same-sex couplings.

Those who advocate acceptance of gay people assert that the passages have to do with acts in the context of idolatry, prostitution or violence. The Bible, they argue, says nothing about homosexuality as it is largely understood today as an enduring orientation, or about committed long-term, same-sex relationships...

This is a problem and a controversy that conservatives will face regardless of their belief. It is not going away.

1 posted on 12/12/2006 5:12:48 PM PST by shrinkermd
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To: shrinkermd
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2 posted on 12/12/2006 5:14:10 PM PST by martin_fierro (< |:)~)
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To: shrinkermd

The Catholic Church went down that "acceptance path" and look what it did to their bank account.


3 posted on 12/12/2006 5:16:30 PM PST by FlingWingFlyer (I hope nobody "offends" me today. I would hate to have to kill them. Amen.)
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To: martin_fierro

The road to hell is paved with.....


4 posted on 12/12/2006 5:16:38 PM PST by xcamel (Press to Test, Release to Detonate)
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To: shrinkermd

I am a born again Christian. I'm also a heterosexual male with strong heterosexual urges. How I respond to those urges determines whether I sin or not. I make choices everyday about different things. Inever have the option to stand before God and say "Its all your fault. You made me this way."


5 posted on 12/12/2006 5:17:20 PM PST by mountn man (The pleasure you get from life, is equal to the attitude you put into it.)
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To: shrinkermd
It is the homo or hetero-sexual practice that is the problem, not the simple inclination.

God does not want us to indulge ourselves sexually until marriage, despite our desires.

I say this, yet I personally have condoned sexual things I shouldn't have.
6 posted on 12/12/2006 5:19:57 PM PST by ConservativeMind
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Good answer.


7 posted on 12/12/2006 5:20:22 PM PST by Past Your Eyes (Do what you love and the ridicule will follow.)
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A person who is ill is at no greater risk than when they think that they are cured when they really are not.

Christ said "For I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance"

Repentance? What is that?


8 posted on 12/12/2006 5:24:57 PM PST by padre35 (We are surrounded, that simplifies our problem Chesty Puller)
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A person can be "gay" and a Bible-believing conservative Christian just as they can be tempted by alcohol, or gluttony, or anything else. It's how they respond to that temptation that matters. If this guy is struggling to resist acting out his homosexual lust, then I don't see the issue - and I doubt many other Bible-believing Christians do either.

But if he's a practicing homosexual and thinks that's fine and dandy with God, then he's as deluded as a burglar who keeps right on burgling after going to an altar call, or a guy who keeps going to a prostitute and thinks there is nothing that he needs to repent of. But I guess it's asking too much of the mainstream media to understand this.

9 posted on 12/12/2006 5:31:43 PM PST by Liberty1970
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To: mountn man
Very good answer!
I am a heterosexual single woman.
I choose to be celibate for a variety of reasons, not least of which is that it would be utter hypocrisy to expect my daughter to remain celibate untill marriage, if I was not celibate outside of marriage.
10 posted on 12/12/2006 5:32:17 PM PST by sarasmom (Enough!)
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To: Liberty1970

But if he's a practicing homosexual and thinks that's fine and dandy with God, then he's as deluded as a burglar who keeps right on burgling after going to an altar call, or a guy who keeps going to a prostitute and thinks there is nothing that he needs to repent of. But I guess it's asking too much of the mainstream media to understand this.

More or less my take as well, we all will fall down on occasion, they claim they are standing.

that is a very dangerous thing to do.


11 posted on 12/12/2006 5:39:09 PM PST by padre35 (We are surrounded, that simplifies our problem Chesty Puller)
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To: shrinkermd
Thus proving that religion is whatever people want it to be. In fact, Christianity as we know it today is an amalgamation of bastardizations of scripture throughout history.

Not that any Popes or other members of influential clergy would allow their political or personal views to have influenced religious doctrine throughout the years. /S

12 posted on 12/12/2006 5:40:43 PM PST by zarf
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To: Liberty1970

Well said.


13 posted on 12/12/2006 5:42:54 PM PST by vpintheak (Yep.)
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To: shrinkermd
Mr. Lee also knows he is gay, that he did not choose it and cannot change it.

No, he can't. But God can.

This is a problem and a controversy that conservatives will face regardless of their belief. It is not going away.

What "controversy?" You can equivocate to human beings all you want. But the Bible is clear. And God doesn't offer a Court of Appeals.

14 posted on 12/12/2006 5:44:52 PM PST by IronJack (=)
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To: shrinkermd

Same-sex attraction is a difficult malady. But it is a malady, and can (and should) be treated -- just like fetal alcohol syndrom or some birth defect. Defect. Treatable.


15 posted on 12/12/2006 5:55:04 PM PST by Theo (Global warming "scientists." Pro-evolution "scientists." They're both wrong.)
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To: Theo

How does one treat this?


16 posted on 12/12/2006 6:18:05 PM PST by merry10
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To: shrinkermd
he is gay, that he did not choose it and cannot change it.

What about transgenders? Are they also born that way and cannot change it? But then they wouldn't be transgenders. They have to change the way they are born or else... Oh....[sound of exploding head]

17 posted on 12/12/2006 6:21:24 PM PST by Alouette (Psalms of the Day: 104-105)
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Church of the Left: "We are all Immaculately Conceived"
18 posted on 12/12/2006 6:33:44 PM PST by right-wingin_It
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To: shrinkermd

The Bible is clear. Pick it up and read it, or go to any Bible website and search "Homosexual". See what you find. God is not going to conform to our image. Take this same example, remove the word "Gay" and add any other you like. " Joe whoever, is a born again Baptist, believes in the Virgin birth, believes in the Bible as the Word of God, votes Republican and is a conservative bank robber!"
God has not changed! He is the same God today, yesterday and forever!


19 posted on 12/12/2006 6:37:23 PM PST by freemike
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The path is a dead end! In so many ways, no one can count them!


20 posted on 12/12/2006 6:39:17 PM PST by gidget7 (Political Correctness is Marxism with a nose job)
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