Posted on 12/08/2006 8:31:16 PM PST by rakovskii
Mary Cheneys pregnancy poses problems not just for her child, but also for all Americans. Her action repudiates traditional values and sets an appalling example for young people at a time when father absence is the most pressing social problem facing the nation. With 37 percent of American children born to fatherless families, Mary Cheney is contributing to a trend that is detrimental to all Americans who will live with the ramifications of millions of children whose anger and frustration at not knowing their father will be felt in the public schools and communities of our nation.
Mary Cheney is among that burgeoning group of adult women over age 20 that are driving the trend of women who dont want a man in the picture, but want to have a baby. These older women are pushing out-of-wedlock birth statistics higher and higher. At a time when teen births and teen abortions are declining dramatically, older women are having more un-wed births and more abortions, including repeat abortions (indicating that they are using abortion as birth control).
Well-educated, professional Mary Cheney is flying in the face of the accumulated wisdom of the top experts who agree that the very best family structure for a childs well-being is a married mom and dad family. Her child will have all the material advantages it will need, but it will still encounter the emotional devastation common to children without fathers.
One Georgia high school principal reported, We have too many young men and women from single-mother families that dont have the role models at home to teach them how to deal with adversity and handle responsibility. Theyve seen their mom work 60 hours a week just to put food on the table; they end up fending for themselves.
When fatherless children get to be teens, the girls tend to start looking for love in all the wrong places and the boys tend to find as their role model the bad-boy celebrities of MTV, NFL and NBA.
As they grow older, fatherless children tend to have trouble dealing with male authority figures. Too often children in single-mother households end up angry at their absent fathers and resentful of the mother who has had to be a father figure, too. Typically, the boys who have a love-hate relationship with their mother end up hating all women. Numerous of them look for vulnerable women where they can act out their anger and be in control.
Mary Cheneys action sets an example that is detrimental for mothers with less financial resources who will start down an irrevocable path into poverty that tends to be generational children in households without a father tend to themselves have unwed births later in life. Experts from both the left and the right cite a disastrous litany of negative outcomes that are predictable when a child grows up in a fatherless family. Such children tend to get involved in drugs, alcohol abuse, and delinquency; they tend to drop out of school and have teen pregnancies. An assistant principal in a Junior High School said that many of the behavioral problems that teachers face in the classroom stem from households without a fathers influence.
Marys pregnancy is an in-your-face action countering the Bush Administrations pro-family, pro-marriage and pro-life policies. She continues to repudiate the work to which her father has devoted his life. Mary has repeatedly said that studies show that children only need a loving home. Her statement is incomplete because the experts agree that for the well-being of children, they desperately need a married father and a mother.
All those people who talk about doing what is best for our children need to get back to the basics: children need a married mom and dad. Children can do without a lot of the trimmings of childhood, but nothing can replace a home where the mother and dad love each other enough to commit for a lifetime and are absolutely crazy about their kids enough to be willing to sacrifice their own needs to see that their children get the very best.
Janice Shaw Crouse, Ph.D., Senior Fellow at the Beverly LaHaye Institute, a culturally conservative think tank for Concerned Women for America, is a recognized authority on domestic issues, the United Nations, cultural and womens concerns.
Sounds like a no win to me, your little scenario. You've damned for having a child and you would have damned her for having an abortion.
I didn't say anything about enforcing by law. Are you getting me mixed up with somebody else?
Words fail me.
Have yourself a nice cup of tea, Hildy, and then give me a quote or two so I'll know what exactly you're responding to.
What? Have an abortion? Nobody is suggesting that. Nobody. But why would she do that? Are you suggesting this was an unplanned pregnancy?
My theory is that they have such miserable real lives they have to come on forums like this to make themselves feel good.
Oh, c'mon. Give it another try.
No thanks. I'd rather try to split an atom.
:-)
"My theory is that they have such miserable real lives they have to come on forums like this to make themselves feel good."
Unbelievable isn't it. And all the while they just keep telling us how they have the answer and how much they love us.
And how close to God they all are.
If I wasn't laughing I'd really be crying instead.
well fine, at least you recognize there is a limit to this. so if government shouldn't do anything about this, then let's just leave it alone. leave Mary Cheney alone, let her have a healthy baby and let's forget this.
Good. A carbon-emission-free energy alternative.
Those of you here claiming to know "gay couples with children" seem to believe that all gays are perfect people with absolutely no vices, emotional problems, behavioral issues or the like. I don't have the statistics at hand, but I have read that gay households are far more prone to domestic violence than heterosexual households. I've also read that gays have higher rates of depression and shorter life expectancies than heterosexuals.
Maybe you do know a "gay couple with children". That is one example among millions of people. If you believe that gays are the same as the rest of us, then you have to believe that they are as fallible and imperfect as the rest of us. That means that they are just as capable of being bad parents as the rest of us.
Couple that with their statistically higher rates of domestic trouble in their homes and it becomes clear to me that a heterosexual household is a better place to raise a child.
Gays raising children doesn't affect me personally in the least, but it will affect society negatively, I believe, if it becomes a common practice and enough children raised by these maladjusted people enter our society as adults.
And a related question: howcome Mary Cheney can do articles, call-ins, interviews, books, and talk-shows ---- and when people try to respond, there's all this huffing and eye-rolling: "OMG, will you keep your nose out of her private business!!"
she already was involved in the Virginia gay marriage debate - her side lost.
this specific issue is her private business. and there are far worse things going on ethically, then this.
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