Dying laughing here. You sound like my husband. He has his Santa on a HD tied down so well I don't think we will ever get it down. Its sad that kids do such mean things. I would think that mother would be glad to know her son was involved so she could deal with him. I guess she just doesn't know how to parent. Maybe the judge, if it gets to a court will order treatment or classes for both the son and her, sure would make sense.
'Treatment', indeed. >:-(