It's you who wants the big powerful tall building, not me. I want a tasteful memorial park, that's all.
A tasteful park remembering the murdered people of 911 makes me feel inspired to avenge them.
That's all.
My point is that you seem to see a tall building and immediately think "penis," and you are confused when other people don't share your arousal. Sounds to me like you're the one with the problem.
What else makes you think of penises?