I agree with you.
While Madonna isn't the mother I would choose for a child, I agree with you. This child is better off with someone here adopting him. Even Madonna. While I understand the desire to keep children within the community where they were born and have kin, these third-world countries have done an atrocious job of making their countries the kind of place where you would want to raise a child. Regardless of her motives, she is contributing money to help the children in the country. And this child would not have been in a home with real parents. He would have been in an orphanage. Do they really think a child in their orphanages would be better off than with most American families? If they make their country a safe and economically viable placer to raise a family, then I might agree with the concerns they've expressed.