I think it's that "just out of bed in the morning" look that gets to you. Amazingly, it works for me, every time!
My husband finds me totally irresistable with messy hair, "racoon eyes" from errant mascara and Morning Breath. Go figure, LOL!
And in this pix, Ann looks like she's actually eaten a full meal in the past week. Men ARE attracted to healthy, hearty women. You can look it up. Curves sell, Baby!
(laughing) You absolutely nailed it, Diana! Every point you made was on my, er, private list...