[linda_22003]

I think the poster likely means that you can be in a monogamous relationship, but you don't necessarily know what the person did before you met. And we do know about your insistence on "picking a virgin", but men don't have hymens, so it's harder to check. ;)

[Antoninus]

And we do know about your insistence on "picking a virgin", but men don't have hymens, so it's harder to check. ;)

Insistence? No, in this day and age, it's just simple common sense--especially considering all this talk about HPV and other STDs. Do you think it should be the ideal for men and women to have several sex partners before they get married? I don't--and I don't think that qualifies as "monogamy." I think the ideal is for both to abstain from intercourse until their wedding day.