Posted on 07/08/2006 9:23:49 AM PDT by fanfan
Three young men who found themselves at the centre of a national controversy after being photographed urinating on the National War Memorial on Canada Day have apologized to "veterans and all Canadians" for their actions that night.
One of the men, a youth from Ottawa who cannot be identified by law, wrote in a letter that he did not realize he was violating a national monument and that he was "ignorant" in doing so.
In the letter, obtained by the Citizen, the youth wrote in French, "I am sorry for my actions and their repercussions, and if I had known what this rock represented before the incident, you would not need to be here now, reading this letter. I apologize not just to all veterans, but to each Canadian citizen I have offended."
The Ottawa police say the other two young men involved in the incident -- another Ottawa youth who cannot be identified and 23-year-old Stephen Fernandes of Montreal -- have also written letters of apology to the police, expressing remorse for their actions.
Yesterday, Ottawa police charged Mr. Fernandes with mischief. He will make his first court appearance Aug. 1.
Stephen Fernandes says he was so intoxicated he doesn't remember urinating on the National War Memorial. Photograph by : Peter McCabe, The Gazette
"I was embarrassed," Mr. Fernandes said yesterday about the incident and the ensuing publicity.
Two days after the incident, a friend called to tell him that his photograph had been on the front page of the Citizen. "I was in complete and utter shock," he said, adding he felt immediately remorseful.
He said he didn't intend to disgrace anyone -- war veterans or his family -- and he will take responsibility for his actions. "I want to formally apologize to anyone I may have offended."
Mr. Fernandes said that not only did he not intend to desecrate the war memorial, but he was almost embarrassed to admit he didn't know how significant the monument is to veterans, and revealed he once volunteered at a veterans' hospital in Quebec.
As to what happened the night of July 1, Mr. Fernandes said, "I know this sounds ridiculous, but I have no recollection of what happened that night. I drank about 26 ounces of vodka and some beers."
He said he drove from Montreal to Ottawa on the afternoon of July 1 and met with some friends. They began partying immediately, he said, and he remembers nothing after 11 p.m. "I don't even remember when the picture was taken."
Mr. Fernandes said he doesn't know the two Ottawa youths who were also photographed urinating on the memorial.
The photos, taken by retired army major Dr. Michael Pilon shortly after 11 p.m. last Saturday, sparked outrage among veterans, residents and politicians.
Dr. Pilon said earlier this week he doesn't think the young men should be fined, saying he holds government officials responsible for not protecting the memorial.
Yesterday, lawyer Lawrence Greenspon said that the two youths have made arrangements with the Royal Canadian Legion to perform community service. Mr. Greenspon brokered the deal after he was contacted by the parents of one youth who said their son wanted to "make things good and apologize."
Mr. Greenspon arranged for the youth to visit the Legion and meet with veterans. The youth then offered to work with the veterans by way of restitution, a plan that was approved by the Crown and police, said Mr. Greenspon.
"He and his buddy went went to Parliament Hill to see the fireworks," he said. "They really had to go (to the bathroom), they did their business and they didn't realize it was the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier," he said. "They just didn't realize the significance of the place where they were doing their business."
Bob Butt, director of communications for the Royal Canadian Legion, said veterans welcomed the apology. "We believe that the apology was contrite and that the young man knows what he did wrong after all the publicity that they gained," he said. "He's come and apologized, and he volunteered of his own free will to take on work with a veterans' organization."
And that, said Mr. Butt, is the silver lining -- the chance for the youth to learn more about the role veterans played in Canada's history. "From the two young men, I don't believe it was an act of blatant disregard; it was probably an act that demanded a lot of education," he said.
On Thursday, the young man and Mr. Greenspon went to the police station, where the youth wrote his apology. In it he said that at the moment of the incident, "I was not under the impression I was urinating on a monument, but rather on a simple rock," he wrote. He had felt the urge to urinate for some time, even before the fireworks display. But afraid to miss the show, he waited. And after the 20-minute wait to leave Parliament Hill, he wrote, he simply couldn't wait.
"I therefore decided to find an isolated spot in the midst of the crowd of people. I found the rock (which I now know to be the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier). ... I'm sorry for my actions and the repercussions."
Meanwhile, Mr. Fernandes said he knows being drunk does not excuse his actions and that he would gladly do community work and pay a fine. He said he called Ottawa police on Wednesday to identify himself and drove there on Thursday to turn himself in.
He said the publicity surrounding the incident has been humiliating. "It's not easy knowing the entire country thinks you're a dim-wit."
LOL!!!
I was thinking the exact same thing while typing my last post. For the life of me, I wonder how the heck I ever made it to age 55........
"the youth wrote in French, I am sorry....SORRY THAT I WAS CAUGHT, REAL SORRY!!!!"
Do you know these boys? You know what's going on in their heads. Nice Christian forgiveness going on in this thread. HE didn't kill, hurt or steal. He did something very, very stupid. I think he's getting the adequate punishment, which is public scorn.
Next thing you know, you'll be telling me some people FReep while having imbibed and get in flame wars and the like. Not that I would believe it...
I still refuse to praise bad behavior nor will I praise good behavior that is the likely result of urging of an attorney.
Giving them praise for saying they're sorry is simple instant gratification. If they want my respect they'll earn it over time.
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To slight one veteran to to slight all veterans. If they are sincere, then as a veteran, their apology is accepted.
I tried to find a pic of the War Memorial, but I got a lot of hits. Can someone post a pic of the one in question? It might help us better understand the "I was blotto" defense.
Unbelievable. I hope you don't have children.
Indeed, sentence them all to join the Canadian Army and serve no less than 12 months in Afghanistan.
I'm not patting anyone on the back. Just recognizing that youth and alcohol can make one do stupid things.
The guy has apologized and has been humiliated. Make him pay to clean it, or clean it himself.
But I'm not about to advocate sending these guys to the chair because they were drunken fools.
I seriously doubt you were ever ~really~ drunk.
http://www.ottawakiosk.com/national_war_memorial.html
Thanks
Hard to picture being so wasted that you could mistake that for anything other than what it is.
But 26 oz of vodka is a LOT of vodka.
Remorse and apology exhibits character that many can learn from.
'A national disgrace'(Canada-Punks Urinate on War Memorial)
The Ottawa Citizen ^ | July 03, 2006 | Shannon Proudfoot
Posted on 07/03/2006 7:01:05 AM PDT by Marius3188
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1659671/posts
Post #13 A pic of him doing the deed
Thanks for that link. There appears to be more to the story.
I still believe one could be drunk enough to not know where he was peeing. I think a lot of posters on the thread have acknowledged that.
However, being drunk enough to pee on something and have your buddy take a picture is another story.
It somewhat pleases me. I would be happier if all three showed up at the Army Depot and were sent to Afghanistan to fight along the REAL Canadians there.
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