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I know I'm not supposed to talk to you, but this is just too much. I read the whole article and the choice that hubby gave this woman was life in the U.S. or "a life of luxury" in a hellhole. Which amounts to what? A three room mud hut with two chamber pots?

Also, did you skip the part where he threatened to keep the kids and "send her packing", and when she looked in her purse, discovered that her husband had taken the money, passports, and credit cards? So what you are saying is that this is a sound form of "outrageous decision making".

I try not to get too worked up over the bitter divorced guys here, and there are a couple on this thread. I was 19 yrs. old when my first husband abandoned me and my two babies. Moaning and groaning about it would be so low class. I got a job and a new life. I almost got a bed in a shelter, too.
Another woman in the same situation helped me and I didn't have to suffer that humiliation. And that's just what it is...guys get to be drunks in bars, crying in their beer, and jilted wives get a bunk in a feminist prison camp with the frightened screeching babies.

Very simply, there is right and there is wrong. If you can point out one single thing that this man did right, I will depart the field. Use any standard you want. What good or right or decent or fair thing did this man do for his wife and three small children?

p.s. Not to get personal, but are you a divorced man who got left with nothing? Because if you are, then at least we have that in common.

LOL! I'm a woman, on first...and last..hubby. Hey, this is a terrible story. If I gave the impression I was sticking up for the husband, I apologize. Absolutely not. I was just trying to tell the poster that it wasn't a case of this guy just abandoning the woman. There is a huge culture difference with how we think and the way they think. By the way, the notion that there is no nice living in Bangladesh is ridiculous. This guy went there with what looks to be close to a million dollars. I doubt he's living in a mud hut.

BTW, remind me why you're not supposed to talk to me...there are so many of you out there I just lose track! :) Hey, lighten up, IT'S SUNDAY!!!!

LOL! I'm a woman, on first...and last..hubby. Hey, this is a terrible story. If I gave the impression I was sticking up for the husband, I apologize. Absolutely not. I was just trying to tell the poster that it wasn't a case of this guy just abandoning the woman. There is a huge culture difference with how we think and the way they think. By the way, the notion that there is no nice living in Bangladesh is ridiculous. This guy went there with what looks to be close to a million dollars. I doubt he's living in a mud hut.

BTW, remind me why you're not supposed to talk to me...there are so many of you out there I just lose track! :) Hey, lighten up, IT'S SUNDAY!!!!

LOL! I'm a woman, on first...and last..hubby. Hey, this is a terrible story. If I gave the impression I was sticking up for the husband, I apologize. Absolutely not. I was just trying to tell the poster that it wasn't a case of this guy just abandoning the woman. There is a huge culture difference with how we think and the way they think. By the way, the notion that there is no nice living in Bangladesh is ridiculous. This guy went there with what looks to be close to a million dollars. I doubt he's living in a mud hut.

BTW, remind me why you're not supposed to talk to me...there are so many of you out there I just lose track! :) Hey, lighten up, IT'S SUNDAY!!!!

If you can point out one single thing that this man did right, I will depart the field.

He took his lousy, stinking, 12th century Muzzie carcass and went back to Bangladesh without dragging her along. So, in a way, he did her a favor... though he did his best to stick it to her on his way out.

She will eventually land on her own two feet, continue her career as a gynocologist, and hopefully marry a decent American man (a real man). She didn't need that piece of crap savage anyway.

Amen, sister, I can relate to your rotten hubby story, although mine is not as bad.

There are many wronged divorced men out there, but there are also many wronged women. And both groups can ultimately thank the feminist movement, IMHO.