Creepy/scary is in the eye of the creeped out and scared. I wish I could tell you differently, but yes Virginia, this does creep me out. That's just a statement of fact.
Which parts are creepy to you? We would probably find the same things creepy... I've known of people who court in a way I'd find pretty darn creepy.
Of course a number of my friends were creeped out that I wasn't planning to move in with my fiance until after I get married so creepy goes both ways apparently.