I've seen enough of your responses, on enough threads to tell, John. Your comments about women are far more negative then your comments about men. And you've been called on them several times by a number of us. Not until Hair and I pointed them out to you on this thread, did your comments become more reasonable.
As I said before, I am grateful for the men in my life who were FAIR when it came to these topics. I have never heard them phrase things the way you do and thank God. There is NOTHING in what they said which gave me an inkling that such was the way they really thought either.
I can recall in highschool hearing the female students who went "too far" with the male students being called "whores." The unfairness of it, struck a strong chord with me, because it wasn't what I was taught at home, or in religion class either. My beliefs about it haven't changed and never will. Some of the comments you make are precisely the same kind of thinking.
I know from experience that for some reason everything I say seems to strike you the wrong way but this comment leaves me kind of scratching my head. I was intending to be equally negative about both men and women in these situations (short term non-long haul commitment cohabitation). Can you point examples out to me on where I was more negative to one than the other?
I can recall in highschool hearing the female students who went "too far" with the male students being called "whores." The unfairness of it, struck a strong chord with me, because it wasn't what I was taught at home, or in religion class either. My beliefs about it haven't changed and never will. Some of the comments you make are precisely the same kind of thinking.
So are the girls who sleep around not whores? Of course the guys who sleep around are also whores. Does the label affixed to one change the label affixed to another? It shouldn't. Either one is a whore or one is not. It doesn't really matter what anyone else is.
Note that I've said (from the beginning of this thread if I recall correctly) that I look down on both members of these short term cohabitational arrangements