Oh, you think you know it all.
I have been living with my man for almost 8 years now.
I don't collect alimony, state aid or other abortion services. There are people who just don't want to get married. I hate weddings. I have never dreamed of my wedding day. I think they are an enormous waste of money.
He has asked me to marry him countless times & I have said yes. But, I honestly don't see the point. If we were to have children, I would marry him. But, neither of us want kids.
Our relationship is just as good (probably better) than all of my married friends. In fact, I have had a few friends that blamed getting married on the death of their relationship. Sometimes marriage changes people in a bad way.
In fact, I have had a few friends that blamed getting married on the death of their relationship. Sometimes marriage changes people in a bad way.
No. Not working at your marriage changes you in a bad way. Refusing to grow up and realize that marriage is forever changes you in a bad way, but marriage itself never changes anyone. What you were before the ceremony you are after the ceremony, now you've just made public your decison to spend your life with your spouse.
Yeah. These days I ask engaged people if they have a good relationship. They always say yes. Then I say Why ruin a perfectly good relationship by getting married?
Sad but too often true.
Whoaaaaa...take it easy there.
General comment for general situation.
There are plenty of exceptions. Guaranteed!