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I have had a few friends that blamed getting married on the death of their relationship. Sometimes marriage changes people in a bad way.

Yeah. These days I ask engaged people if they have a good relationship. They always say yes. Then I say Why ruin a perfectly good relationship by getting married?

Sad but too often true.

[Feiny]

What I can't stand is that all my married friends with kids never miss an opportunity to ask "When are you guys getting married...when are you having kids?"

Arrrggghhh. I have told them countless times & it never sinks in. My parents don't even ask, but these cult like married folks never stop recruiting.