[rarestia]

But actually having that happen is a process that requires levels of self awareness and selflessness from both parties such that it is nearly as rare as a lottery win.

So it's hopeless for me to even try finding a woman in this day and age?

[John O]

So it's hopeless for me to even try finding a woman in this day and age?

Not at all. Of course I probably wouldn't look in a major metropolitan area (tend to be too liberal and anti-religious)

Try looking in the rural Christian areas. I know of several women who are looking to get married who are still pure and striving to be proverbs 31 type wives. Of course I can't let you know where until after I pick one out for myself (if she'll have me)

[70times7]

Depends on who you get to help you with both the "search" and the process of living your lives together.

Oddly enough, the example was set by this celebate unmarried Guy who did nothing to stop His own torture and murder. He allowed it because of the love of His bride and for "her" benefit.