Depends on who you get to help you with both the "search" and the process of living your lives together.
Oddly enough, the example was set by this celebate unmarried Guy who did nothing to stop His own torture and murder. He allowed it because of the love of His bride and for "her" benefit.
259 posted on 03/01/2006 1:01:20 PM PST by 70times7
(An open mind is a cesspool of thought)