[wideawake]

And you know this how?

Because they aren't married. If you care enough about a child to be a real father to him, you marry his mother.

Period.

[Quick1]

If you care enough about a child to be a real father to him, you marry his mother.

Says you. Some of us don't necessarily need marriage to know we've made a committment to one another. Besides, how is it any of yours or the government's business?