[HairOfTheDog]

The unnamed woman, conservative, FReeper ping.

When the shouting from our respective corners is over, perhaps resentment from both sides will melt.

[najida]

Geez,
There isn't enough Excedrin on the planet for me to deal with this thread.

Somewhere between being told I have a shelf life and my primary duty was to reproduce makes me.....

Want to go and have fun and ignore the azzhats ;)

[Galveston Grl]

Let's anaylize the various mentalies men have expressed in this thread:

We have the "I hate my mommie" boys who proclaim that women have a shelf life because they can not cope with mommie aged women. If a woman is older than 30, forget it, she's too smart for these little boys to deal with. Get 'em while they are young and stupid. (But I bet they have some problems in attracting the young ones cause they are way too wounded to be successful men.)

We have the "The Whiney Oprah Boys" who have thrown in the towel having been rejected by women one too many times. Now they leaving the country to buy wives who don't know them. Maybe going to a third world sh!t hole for a hard up babe who will marry anything calling itself American to get the heck out of female head chopping land and into America is the only option they see for themselves at this point. They try to make themselves feel better about their submission to failure by telling themselves "American women don't deserve me anyway. Girls suck." Talking to these wounded puppies is like "I know you are but what am I." They probably live in California, bless their hearts.

We have some quite sensible men, the "I am a real man bunch" who can actually assign the problem of structural inequality delivered to men, where it belongs - to Marxist feminism. They also recognize that the Marxist gender social engineering is detrimental to men and women which means they probably have the ability to step outside of it and lovingly direct themselves in relationships with women. They also may possess the ability to actually effect change that will help both men and women in the aftermath of Marxism feminism. One of them observed that husbands and wives put their needs aside and seek to serve one another. I appreciated that wisdom and must remember to seek to do that with my man.

Finally, we have the "scary boy group" who refer to women as bitches and pigs and who "don't talk to them." These angry little boys in men's bodies are probably dangerous to themselves and others. It is best not to talk to them either. : )

[Sally'sConcerns]

Even though I didn't sign up for the unnamed woman, conservative, FReeper ping, I saw the thread where the ping list was started.

So far on this thread I've read a blanket statement about women lying and another about "for women, it's all about the money".

I may join y'all on occasion as one of those unnamed women, conservative, FReeper's. It's very difficult for me to read these threads though because of the anger, hostility and outright hatred directed at all women by some of the 'men' who post on these threads.

Someone said on the other thread that as women we're damned if we do and damned if we don't. In the eyes of some of these male posters, the person was absolutely correct. (and not only about being a stay at home Mom vs a Mom who keeps her career skills up to date or who works outside of the home.)