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The Boy and his mom are two little babies.  But then again, kids today are under so much stress.

Kids say they're stressed out, and parents aren't helping

Kevin Babcock v. Michael Pollari

Kevin Babcock sued Michael Pollari for assault and batter and emotional distress. Babcock claimed that when he was 13-years-old, he questioned the fairness of a running drill during a practice at Morris Hills High School. He further alleged that Pollari, an assistant coach for the Lakeland Babe Ruth League, grabbed him by the front of his shirt... More...   $55,000 (10/15/2005 - NJ ) 55000


1 posted on 11/25/2005 5:31:18 PM PST by Coleus
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Did coach's assault have lasting effect on boy, 13? Jury weighing issue of emotional injury.

How much is an emotional scar worth?  That's what a Morris County jury would have to decide if it finds that a Rockaway baseball coach's assault of a 13-year-old player in 2001 traumatized him and stripped him of his love of team sports.  A jury of five women and one man began deliberating late yesterday afternoon in the case of Kevin Babcock vs. Michael Pollari after hearing closing arguments in the weeklong civil trial. "They have a tough issue, determining if there was an emotional injury and, if there is, what that injury is worth," Superior Court Judge W. Hunt Dumont said.

Prior to closing arguments, Dumont dismissed Walter Arlen, the head coach of Babcock's 2001 baseball team, as a defendant, and ruled the Lakeland Babe Ruth Baseball League had no direct culpability. The league, however, could still be on the hook to pay damages if the jury finds in Babcock's favor because Pollari was a coach for the league when the assault took place.

Pollari, 43, admitted that as an assistant coach, he lost his cool and grabbed Babcock by the shirt after the boy twice questioned a running drill during a May 2, 2001 practice at Morris Hills High School. A month later, in municipal court, Pollari was convicted of assaulting the seventh-grader.  "He put the fear of God in a 13-year-old child," said Babcock's attorney, Richard Dunne. Soon after, Babcock ceased playing team sports, giving up baseball, football and track. "It was not appealing to me any more," the 17-year-old testified last week. He took up snowboarding and skateboarding.

Pollari's attorney, Adam Kenny, said jurors should question if that altercation caused the Rockaway teenager to suffer a psychological disorder, as claimed. Kenny presented evidence that the Babcocks' home life became strained when his father, William, lost his job in 1999. William Babcock began drinking and withdrew from family activities.

Kenny said that while Sandra Babcock testified in her son's case that her son had enjoyed a close, happy relationship with his father before the assault, that was contrary to what she told jurors in her husband's wrongful termination trial against Sears Roebuck & Co. last year.

"Sandra Babcock got trapped by the truth," Kenny said.  At her husband's civil trial, she testified that even after her husband got a new job at Wal-Mart a few months later, she and her husband didn't get along well. "We were civil to each other, but it just wasn't the same," she had testified. They divorced in May 2002.

Dunne reminded the jurors that they heard no evidence that Kevin Babcock suffered emotional trauma from his father's firing. "That's just a red herring thrown in there just to mislead you," Dunne said. Dunne suggested that if there were trouble at home, that might have fueled Babcock's love for sports, and losing that passion because of Pollari's actions would have made the loss even greater.

While psychologist Lois Steinberg testified that Kevin Babcock suffered an adjustment disorder with anxiety after the assault, Kenny said Steinberg never asked if anything else was going on in the home at the time that might be troubling the teenager.  The jury will resume deliberations this morning.  Sandra Babcock had also been a plaintiff in the case but Dumont ruled that under state law she could not be compensated for loss of companionship. She had testified that she loved watching her son play team sports and missed that.

2 posted on 11/25/2005 5:36:38 PM PST by Coleus (Roe v. Wade and Endangered Species Act both passed in 1973, Murder Babies/save trees, birds, algae)
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To: Coleus

Sounds like standard adolescent sports stuff to me. A kid mouths off about not wanting to do something the coach told him to do, the coach gets hot under the collar and grabs the kid. Ninety-nine percent of kids at that point go off and do as they are told, and there the incident ends. This kid and his mom sound like a couple of tailor-made Dem "victim" types.


3 posted on 11/25/2005 5:43:12 PM PST by speedy
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To: Coleus
Any coach that put his hands on my 13 year-old would find out about the quality of his health insurance. Punks who fight down their weight class because they can't control a group of kids need to see what it's like to fight someone their own size.

The testosterone poisoned among us might think that a coach is empowered to rough up a 13 year-old but that is something they can save for the pro's

4 posted on 11/25/2005 5:46:13 PM PST by muir_redwoods (Free Sirhan Sirhan, after all, the bastard who killed Mary Jo Kopechne is walking around free)
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To: Coleus
I have raised 3 sons and my oldest was always pushing buttons...if he came home and whined about an incident such as this I would have looked at him and asked what he did to encourage this type of behavior from the coach....OK I may not have put it quit that eloquently
22 posted on 11/25/2005 7:16:06 PM PST by Kimmers
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