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Happy People Make The World Better (God Made People To Be Happy Alert)
Townhall.com ^ | 11/08/05 | Dennis Prager

Posted on 11/07/2005 11:01:53 PM PST by goldstategop

When you think about a Muslim suicide terrorist, is "happy" the first word you think of to describe him?

When you think about Nazis or Communists or Klansmen or child molesters, do you immediately think, "Now there are some happy people"?

Of course not.

It only takes a moment's thought to realize that while most unhappy people don't engage in evil, most evil is done by unhappy people. This is true on both the macro and the micro levels. We all know how much more likely we are to lash out at others when we are unhappy and how much we desire to make others feel good when we feel happy.

Given this association of evil with unhappy people, it is quite remarkable how little attention is paid to happiness as a moral, rather than only a personal psychological issue. Too often the pursuit of happiness (not the pursuit of fun or excitement) is regarded as a selfish pursuit, when in fact it is one of the best things a person can do for everyone in his life and for the world at large. The Founders of America were brilliant in many ways, not more so than by enshrining that pursuit alongside the pursuit of life and liberty.

It is therefore worth noticing how little thought is given to the question of happiness in attempting to understand the roots of evil and in seeking ways to improve the world.

Those on the left are far more likely to inquire about the economic state of those individuals and groups involved in anti-social behavior ("poverty causes crime"). And those on the right are more concerned with determining the moral and ethical values held by people engaged in bad behavior.

In my view, values are more determinative than economics. But few people have values that are so strong that those values will always overcome the individual's unhappiness and lead him to act according to those values.

Moreover, happy people with weak characters or who possess an underdeveloped code of values are still not likely to engage in cruel behavior or join evil movements. But unhappy people who lack strong character or who have not adopted a code of moral values are very likely to act out their unhappiness in anti-social ways.

This is particularly true in the personal realm where unhappiness can be so powerful that it regularly overwhelms a person's value system. I suspect that most readers of this column know someone with generally good values and good character who nevertheless acts indecently toward some member(s) of his/her family: a parent, a child, a spouse, a sibling.

One of the sadder revelations as one gets older is seeing how often psychological problems determine behavior.

When my book on happiness first came out in 1999, I was interviewed on dozens of talk shows. In almost every case, the interviewer asked me, "So you write that we have a moral obligation to be happy -- what do you mean?"

The notion that happiness (or at least acting happy) is a debt we owe to all those in our lives and even to society at large is foreign to the vast majority of people. Yet, the more time I have devoted to writing and lecturing on this issue, the more I have come to realize that this is indeed the case. Ask anyone who was raised by an unhappy parent; ask anyone married to a chronically unhappy person; ask any worker whose co-worker is moody what their life is like and you will readily understand the moral obligation to be as happy as one can be.

Polls consistently show Republicans and religiously active Jews and Christians to be happier than Democrats and secular Americans. In light of the above, what does the preceding tell us about the good each group is likely to achieve?


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We have a moral obligation to be happy. God made people to be happy and nothing makes us feel more blessed than to share it with others. Being happy makes the world a better place too. There's the old saying a smile or a kind comment can go a long way. Its a priceless gift we should bless God for every day of our lives for our lives acquire through being happy, a state of grace as well as a more sublime character.

(Denny Crane: "I Don't Want To Socialize With A Pinko Liberal Democrat Commie.Say What You Like About Republicans. We Stick To Our Convictions. Even When We Know We're Dead Wrong.")

1 posted on 11/07/2005 11:01:54 PM PST by goldstategop
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To: goldstategop

God made people to be happy?
I think the Bible disputes that claim.


2 posted on 11/07/2005 11:03:20 PM PST by counterpunch (~ Let O'Connor Go Home! ~)
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To: goldstategop

It's the happyhappyhappyhappy hour...


3 posted on 11/07/2005 11:04:26 PM PST by Choose Ye This Day ('Tis the part of the wise man to...not venture all his eggs in one basket. -- Cervantes)
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To: counterpunch

Really? Where?


4 posted on 11/07/2005 11:05:02 PM PST by Choose Ye This Day ('Tis the part of the wise man to...not venture all his eggs in one basket. -- Cervantes)
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To: Choose Ye This Day

Ask Job.


5 posted on 11/07/2005 11:05:32 PM PST by counterpunch (~ Let O'Connor Go Home! ~)
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To: goldstategop
Happy is easy, bitchy takes work.
6 posted on 11/07/2005 11:05:56 PM PST by msnimje ("People for the American Way have issued a Fatwah against Alito" --- John Cornyn)
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To: counterpunch

Not the biblical god, but Mammon. From the analysis of the expression "I feel [or you look] like a million dollars" it necessarily follows that a dollar is a happiness measurement unit, and a rather small unit at that.


7 posted on 11/07/2005 11:07:36 PM PST by GSlob
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To: counterpunch
Look at the psalms - they're described as songs of ascension. It implies we have an obligation to be happy. God is the author of our happiness and the Founding Fathers Of America realized happiness is the key to goodness. After life and liberty, the pursuit of happiness is mentioned as a human birthright. When we have life and freedom, its not enough to complete our existence. We have a need to show delight in life even when it lets us down.

(Denny Crane: "I Don't Want To Socialize With A Pinko Liberal Democrat Commie.Say What You Like About Republicans. We Stick To Our Convictions. Even When We Know We're Dead Wrong.")

8 posted on 11/07/2005 11:07:44 PM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: counterpunch

I think Job is a perfect example. After all he went through, he was still never rebuked God. And in that solace, we take with us to be thankful for what we have. That, in itself, makes us happy.

I guess if you're never thankful, you'd never be happy. Maybe that's the moral of the story.


9 posted on 11/07/2005 11:08:01 PM PST by writer33 (Rush Limbaugh walks in the footsteps of giants: George Washington, Thomas Paine and Ronald Reagan.)
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To: counterpunch

Job's not available for comment, I'm afraid.

I see what you mean, and that's always been a problematic parable.

Happiness doesn't mean "freedom from pain."


10 posted on 11/07/2005 11:08:30 PM PST by Choose Ye This Day ('Tis the part of the wise man to...not venture all his eggs in one basket. -- Cervantes)
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To: counterpunch

in Jesus, if they will make that choice.


11 posted on 11/07/2005 11:11:41 PM PST by HiTech RedNeck
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To: GSlob

I guess I'd rather look like a million smiles than a million dollars.


12 posted on 11/07/2005 11:12:27 PM PST by HiTech RedNeck
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To: goldstategop

The Bible and the Declaration of Independence are two totally separate documents, despite what Judge Roy Moore would like you to believe.


13 posted on 11/07/2005 11:12:44 PM PST by counterpunch (~ Let O'Connor Go Home! ~)
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To: GSlob
Rush Limbaugh writes that the world sets up obstacles in the way of happiness. Liberals act like no one deserves to be happy. If you watch the evening network news, you'd think the world was a horrible place and you should be mad at it. I hated what it did to me and I stopped watching it long ago found an inner peace and happiness I hadn't known in a long time. Hard as life is, I take the time to thank God for the opportunity to show my happiness for every thing He does for me. And I think life will get even better tomorrow.

(Denny Crane: "I Don't Want To Socialize With A Pinko Liberal Democrat Commie.Say What You Like About Republicans. We Stick To Our Convictions. Even When We Know We're Dead Wrong.")

14 posted on 11/07/2005 11:13:03 PM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: Choose Ye This Day

The only reason I can think of that the bible gives for God making people is to glorify Him.


15 posted on 11/07/2005 11:14:11 PM PST by AntiGuv (™)
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To: Choose Ye This Day

I'm having happy, happy, happy thoughts about this thread right now.

:)

All kidding aside, I'd agree.


16 posted on 11/07/2005 11:14:22 PM PST by writer33 (Rush Limbaugh walks in the footsteps of giants: George Washington, Thomas Paine and Ronald Reagan.)
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To: counterpunch

Job was a test case.... and all he lost was restored to him many times over.

However, I agree with you. God didn't make us to be happy; He made us to worship Him.


17 posted on 11/07/2005 11:15:10 PM PST by clee1 (We use 43 muscles to frown, 17 to smile, and 2 to pull a trigger. I'm lazy and I'm tired of smiling.)
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To: counterpunch

I don't think you're really getting the gist of this thread, are you?

Happiness. You might want to try it sometime.


18 posted on 11/07/2005 11:16:35 PM PST by Choose Ye This Day ('Tis the part of the wise man to...not venture all his eggs in one basket. -- Cervantes)
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To: Choose Ye This Day; writer33

The Bible, and most especially the Catholic faith, is all about this life being meant for suffering and being tested. One cannot be happy when they are suffering. There is a big difference between not blaspheming God and being happy.



19 posted on 11/07/2005 11:17:05 PM PST by counterpunch (~ Let O'Connor Go Home! ~)
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To: goldstategop

What makes religious oppression so insidious, especially in the case of Islam, instead of freeing the soul, it enslaves it to a bunch of futile rituals. So the very thing that the followers think is making them better, is actually making them worse. Its a case of the cure (Islam) being worse than the disease (man's fallen, sinful state).

Ephesians 2
7 That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.
8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.
11 Wherefore remember, that ye being in time past Gentiles in the flesh, who are called Uncircumcision by that which is called the Circumcision in the flesh made by hands;
12 That at that time ye were without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers from the covenants of promise, having no hope, and without God in the world:
13 But now in Christ Jesus ye who sometimes were far off are made nigh by the blood of Christ.
14 For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition between us;
15 Having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make in himself of twain one new man, so making peace;


20 posted on 11/07/2005 11:17:08 PM PST by HisKingdomWillAbolishSinDeath (My Homeland Security: Isaiah 54:17 No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper)
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