What!?
Let me provide you with a clue....women like to be pursued and courted
"Let me provide you with a clue....women like to be persued and courted."
True, but if men aren't knocking on your door, a woman has to change her tactics. I knew two guys in high school who were cute as hell, but I just remained friends with them because I thought that's all they wanted. Come to find out....years later, that they both had wished they would have persued me and courted me. I'm happily married now, but I wonder if things would have been different had I gotten up the nerve to ask them out.
You don't need to give me a clue about women. I think I have a handle on that score. Most women have no clue about men however. Men also like to be pursued as well and there is no reason why a woman shouldn't do the pursuing.
I totally agree apackof2--if a man doesn't have the strength to lead into a conversation to ask you out, how is he going to have the strength to lead a marriage?
I can identify with this conundrum-I'm an attorney, drive a cute little BMW and when guys find out they totally shut me out. The Bimmer is the only thing I have in the world that's a sign of wealth- it's my dream car and it's not new.
"Let me provide you with a clue....women like to be pursued and courted"
OK.
Now we get to launch into a lengthy discussion on how the feminist movement of the 60's/70's screwed everything up for everyone 'cuz now we males don't know what to expect from women in general.
We are EMPHATICALLY NOT MIND-READERS.
We are HARD PROGRAMMED, and essentially DUMB AS ROCKS.
TOO MANY CROSSED WIRES AND MIXED SIGNALS from women these days.
Oh my God is that crap. I thank the Lord that my spouse didn't require such high school-like thinking in our relationship.
"Let me provide you with a clue....women like to be pursued and courted"
What they like and what they will get are no longer the rules of the game. You've come a long way baby. Welcome to the world equality in the world of the modern day meat market. Im so happy to be married and out of that world.
Just don't be subtle about your desire to have him pursue you. The problem is that the guy fears rejection. He is happy to do the work of pursuing and courting as long as he knows he's not going to be humiliated. You don't have to flash your breasts at him or anything. There's a right way to be subtly obvious.
I think they call that "stalking" nowadays.
-but only from men with a sufficiently large bank account, that can take care of her for the rest of her life.....