I tried eharmony, all I got was women with 3 kids(nothing wrong with that, I just dont want a pre-manufactured family right now) or neurotic blondes. I had over 40 matches my first month and I didnt like any of them, guess I am to picky. I met one woman at a Circle K(brunette) and ended up dating her while I let my eharmony account flounder.
I had a similar situation, but not with an online service! I had joined up with a company called "Heart to Heart," which is an introduction service, and they were SO WRONG on the match-ups that it was stunning. Of course I went in and demanded my money back after just 4 "dates," and they pretty much told me to "get stuffed." Quite expensive too, but I wound up telling them to stop sending me any "introduction" letters even though I still had 6 more.
The straw that broke the camel's back was when I got introduced to a 47 year old woman (a grandmother) who was active in her church, and who's #1 item of importance was that she was looking for a saved gentleman to participate with her in her church activities. The problem was that I was 35 at the time, had requested not to meet women older than 40, the fact that I was Jewish, and had no interest in converting... Not a very good match-up.
Mark
Ugh !
You should change it to "fore_lizard" immediately.
Leni