I agree. I also think it's a big mistake to pick they same type of person you did the first time. This causes the same old problems. Some women are particularly bad at this, loving the bad boys too much.
I agree. I am not one. I married a tough guy in a leather jacket the first time. I was sheltered and only 18. He was abusive. At 20, I packed up my one year old daughter and hitched a ride and got out of there. I paid my way through college and was single for years. I met my husband at a bar on Halloween; it was love at first sight. We married six months later. He is a great guy and I am very fortunate. We have been married for 17 years.