No one will be allowed to grieve for her because she was a smoker and deserved what she got. /sarcasm
A similiar situation happened to me regarding the death of a smoker.
I was very close to a cousin and she died suddenly of a heart attack and I was devastated, When I was telling a neighbor she asked "Did she smoke?" When I answered "Yes" she just got a look of disgust on her face,made a "brush off" motion with her hand and said "Oh,well!" and changed the subject.
I was appalled !