Sorry friend, you can give them a pass, but, I can not and will not. Terri is dead because none of her male kin would stand up and risk life or a bit of jail time to rescue her.
With all the law enforcement surrounding Terri and the hospice, even if her male kinfolk had attempted to rescue her, they would be sitting in jail and Terri would still be dead. It was a mission impossible that to be sucessful would have required several "A" teams and all the comic book super heroes combined.
go gather some news because you are just spreading nonsense here. Blaming the victims is a very liberal thing to do.