[Quick1]

You and your affianced are rude,then . How will a complete stranger know who to sit next to?

Oh please. There will be no strangers by themselves at our wedding. Everybody knows at least a few people. Also, if you can't at least make polite conversation for an hour, even with people you don't know, you're the rude one. I didn't know anyone at the last wedding I went to, because it was my fiance's friend, whom I didn't really know. I still had a great time.

Hint...hint...unless you've planned otherwise, your guests will be sitting at table, during the dancing. It is rare for EVERYONE to dance every dance at a wedding.

You don't know our families and friends. The only people not dancing will be in their cars and on their way home. If someone needs a break from dancing, they can find a seat near the floor and chat with their friends for a bit.

[nopardons]

You've managed to miss ALL of the points and put your own spin on it. But that's okay...it's no skin off my nose. :-)

[dbwz]

Some weddings are social events; some are family events. You are having a family event and the same rules don't necessarily apply.

[Blue Jays]

Hi Quick1-

You must be extremely young to be posting the sophomoric things you're posting about weddings. It would be gracious and courteous of you and your future spouse to consider the interests and personality types of your guests. Try to arrange seating plans so they REALLY enjoy their dinner partners and table conversations.

As far as everyone dancing all the time, get real. Some people just prefer to listen to the music and not get all sweaty jumping around. What about the elderly people attending your reception.

FReeper nopardons was 100% accurate. Heed that advice and you'll be happier years down the road when remembering your big day.

~ Blue Jays ~