You must be extremely young to be posting the sophomoric things you're posting about weddings. It would be gracious and courteous of you and your future spouse to consider the interests and personality types of your guests. Try to arrange seating plans so they REALLY enjoy their dinner partners and table conversations.
As far as everyone dancing all the time, get real. Some people just prefer to listen to the music and not get all sweaty jumping around. What about the elderly people attending your reception.
FReeper nopardons was 100% accurate. Heed that advice and you'll be happier years down the road when remembering your big day.
~ Blue Jays ~
Many, many thanks! :-)