It's much larger than that. Long and short, you're a hypocrite.
Ah - I'm a hypocrite for expressing a strong opinion against someone disparaging my marriage - a very crass thing that decent posters don't do to each other - but I did not resort to profanity, just made a common FR statement used when the other poster has crossed the line of decorum. Would YOU react meekly if someone did that to you? Or are you so wrapped up in the politics of this that you cannot even acknowledge that the otehr poster did something in very bad taste?
If we keep this up we will be accused of being in Howlin's gang as well