Well, there may be a distinction here between the teachings of the Church and Holy Scripture. While there are a number of examples, I offer two:
Remind them to be subject to rulers and authorities, to obey, to be ready for every good work [Titus 3:1]
Render therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's [Matthew 22:21]
It is certainly up to the individual to determine when and how to resist wrong things. For example, I would agree that a Christian may choose to resign rather than issue marriage licenses to homosexuals. On the other hand, it would be inappropriate simply to refuse to issue them if their job requires them to.
For what it is worth, the sixth commandment is Thou shalt not murder; there are circumstances where killing is both legal and moral (war, self-defense, etc.)
The only place that I recall where the Bible offers explicit guidance to disobey civil authority is in the book of Revelation, where believers are instructed to refuse to take the mark of the anti-Christ, even to the point of death if necessary.
Church teachings should be Biblical; otherwise they constitute interpretation of Scripture, much as liberal judges interpret the Constitution to discover hidden separation of Church and State meaning.
Words mean what they say or should.
I agree - like "eat my flesh, drink my blood".
Why?
This is not quite the same. I get what you're trying to say -- separation of Church and state. But, when the state asks you to do what you CANNOT do, that is something else. IF the state (say China) mandates that a doctor MUST perform abortions for parents with more than 1 kid, then is that to be resisted or not?