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College taught her not to be a heterosexual
WorldNetDaily ^ | April 19, 2005 | Dennis Prager

Posted on 04/18/2005 10:16:15 PM PDT by scripter

Perhaps the most important argument against same-sex marriage is that once society honors same-sex sex as it does man-woman sex, there will inevitably be a major increase in same-sex sex. People do sexually (as in other areas) what society allows and especially what it honors.

One excellent example illustrating this is an article recently written in the McGill University newspaper by McGill student Anna Montrose. In it, she wrote:

It's hard to go through four years of a Humanities B.A. reading Foucault and Butler and watching 'The L Word' and keep your rigid heterosexuality intact. I don't know when it happened exactly, but it seems I no longer have the easy certainty of pinning my sexual desire to one gender and never the other.

(Michel Foucault is a major French "postmodern" philosopher; Judith Butler is a prominent "gender theorist" at U.C. Berkeley; and "The L-Word" is a popular TV drama about glamorous lesbians.)

I interviewed Anna Montrose, a bright and articulate 22-year-old woman, on my syndicated radio show. She is a fine example of the type of thinking and behavior a homosexuality-celebrating culture – such as that at our universities – produces.

The following are selected excerpts, edited for reasons of space, from that interview. The full transcript, the audio and her original article are all available on my website.


DP: Prior to attending university you had your 'rigid heterosexuality' intact. Is that correct?

AM: I think that that's pretty fair to say.

DP: So you and I both believe that how people behave sexually, including which sex they will engage with sexually, is largely determined by society and not by nature.

AM: Yeah, I completely agree.

DP: Gay rights activists say the opposite. They say that whether you act homosexually or not is fixed; and I don't believe it's fixed necessarily at all and neither do you.

AM: But I think that [the activists'] argument has a political purpose, which is to counter the argument that heterosexuality is fixed.

DP: I agree with you. But we both think that they're not telling the truth for the sake of making a political argument.

Since we both agree that largely whom we have sex with and sexual behavior generally are culturally determined, the only question is: Would we like culture to determine [these things] one way or the other? I think 'yes' and you think 'not'. I have a heterosexual preference because my values tell me that male-female love is the ideal. You don't think it's the ideal. Is that fair?

AM: I think that it's one of many options.

DP: It's not necessarily a good thing to teach heterosexual behavior as the ideal?

AM: Yeah.

DP: You didn't know you were sexually attracted to women until you went to university? You had lived 18 years and thought you were only sexually attracted to males.

AM: That's true, but I also had never had a boyfriend either. I didn't date ...

DP: Whether one has a boyfriend or girlfriend is very different from what one wants to have and where one's sexual fantasies lie.

AM: Yeah, that's completely true.

DP: All I'm saying about sexual choices is that society has a deep impact on sexual choices including whether it's same sex or opposite sex. So my whole position is: Thousands of years of Western Civilization preferring male-female bonding leading to marriage and family is a good thing, and Anna feels that it's a bad thing. Is that totally fair? Or am I putting words in your mouth?

AM: I don't think it's necessarily preferable. I think that people should be able to make their own choices.

DP: So one is as good as the other.

AM: Yeah.

DP: So you're saying that for thousands of years, Western society has been wrong for preferring male-female marital bonding.

AM: I only think it's wrong in that it limits other possibilities, which are equally good.

DP: So it is wrong to tell people, wrong to tell little girls, to suggest in any way, subtly or non-subtly, that they should grow up and marry a boy?

AM: Yeah, I don't think that you should force anyone into ...

DP: You said 'forced,' I just said 'suggest.'

AM: How would you just gently tell someone?

DP: By saying, for example, "Well, are you going to marry Jerry or Tony?" instead of, "Are you going to marry Jerry or Barbara?"

AM: I think that the coercion is on a sort of deeper level.

DP: So you feel it's [coercion] to suggest to a girl only male options for marriage?

AM: Right.

DP: Have you acted upon your new revelation of not being a rigid heterosexual?

AM: What do you mean 'acted on'?

DP: Well, had sexual contact with females.

AM: I guess I have, yeah.

DP: Have you had with a male?

AM: I had. I had a boyfriend for a year.

DP: Is there any difference or are they both equally meaningful to you?

AM: Well, there is definitely a difference, but they are also both meaningful.

DP: At this point, do you hope to marry one day?

AM: I haven't really decided on that.

DP: You don't even have that hope? You haven't decided on the hope? I asked if you hoped, not if you decided.

AM: Do I hope to marry? I don't know if I'm going to marry or not.

DP: I didn't ask if you knew; I was asking if you're hoping.

AM: I'm not sure what the difference is.

DP: I hope to win the lottery, but I don't expect to. There is a very big difference. So I'm asking if you hoped to.

AM: Well, hope would imply that that would be ideal. But I'm not going to say that getting married would be ideal. But I'm also not against marriage – I mean you get insurance benefits by getting married, so I can definitely see a case where I would get married.

DP: For insurance benefits?

AM: Yeah.

DP: That's why you would marry?

AM: And tax benefits as well. It's very convenient.


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: academia; bravenewworld; disgusting; gay; heterophobia; homosexual; homosexualagenda; homosexuality; leftisthighered; lesbian; moralrelativism; prager; queerfolksarecool; summabonum
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1 posted on 04/18/2005 10:16:15 PM PDT by scripter
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To: little jeremiah; DirtyHarryY2K; EdReform
Ping

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2 posted on 04/18/2005 10:17:28 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: scripter
She doesn't understand. Lesbianism is just for the sophomore year, to provide lurid stories to scandalize people with in your old age.

So9

3 posted on 04/18/2005 10:20:09 PM PDT by Servant of the 9 (Trust Me)
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To: scripter
AM: And tax benefits as well. It's very convenient.

The scariest line in the whole interview.

4 posted on 04/18/2005 10:20:57 PM PDT by Carry_Okie (The environment is too complex and too important to be managed by central planning.)
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To: Servant of the 9
She doesn't understand.

In many ways...

5 posted on 04/18/2005 10:21:22 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: scripter

Pay attention lawyers, yur next goldmine is on the horizon.


6 posted on 04/18/2005 10:22:25 PM PDT by Waco
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To: scripter
I Do Exist
7 posted on 04/18/2005 10:22:32 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: scripter
Confession from a former homosexual
8 posted on 04/18/2005 10:24:27 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: Carry_Okie

Yup. I have a friend who married for exactly that reason.

Scary, and sad.


9 posted on 04/18/2005 10:28:04 PM PDT by JennysCool (Support bacteria - they're the only culture some people have.)
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To: little jeremiah
I meant to tell you... my copy of I Do Exist arrived today and I watched the 52 minute video. It's the story of 4 ex-gays or former homosexuals.

One of the former homosexuals interviewed is Noe Gutierrez. What's important to note about Noe is that he was also made statements on It's Elementary... and here he is now, a former homosexual.

The video also has a number of statements by Robert Spitzer, giving the video some very interesting support.

10 posted on 04/18/2005 10:30:39 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: Waco

"Pay attention lawyers, yur next goldmine is on the horizon"

I may be contacted at 1.800.FAUX.GAY for a free consultation and prospective meeting with your institution of higher learning for an immeadiate shakedown - "shakedown", meaning the legal procedure and not the sexual maneuver.

Prager rules - no one else could get this kind of stuff out of an interview.


11 posted on 04/18/2005 10:34:25 PM PDT by incredulous joe ("The floggings will continue until the general morale improves!")
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To: scripter

I don't know if it's possible to trust anybody who claims to change their sexual preference.

Prime Rib vs. Tuna Steak is a choice.


12 posted on 04/18/2005 10:36:00 PM PDT by HKTechBoy (There is no gray area in Life)
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To: EdReform; backhoe; Yehuda; Clint N. Suhks; saradippity; stage left; Yakboy; I_Love_My_Husband; ...

Homosexual Agenda Ping.

Scarely excerpt of an interview with Dennis Prager, whom I really like.* It's actually more blood curdling and hair raising on the back of the neck than some of the outrageous Michaelangelo Signorile stuff. This is just a "regular" college girl. Absolutely amoral, almost inhuman.

Let me and DirtyHarryY2L know if you want on/off this pinglist.

*Not sure if that is the right usage of "whom" alert.


13 posted on 04/18/2005 10:38:06 PM PDT by little jeremiah (Resisting evil is our duty or we are as responsible as those promoting it.)
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To: scripter

Is the video suitable for older children or would be only for adults? I would like to get it.


14 posted on 04/18/2005 10:39:24 PM PDT by little jeremiah (Resisting evil is our duty or we are as responsible as those promoting it.)
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To: scripter
If sexuality is culturally conditioned, it doesn't really matter who we're attracted to. Love is strictly a matter of self-interest in a liberal society in which the summa bonum, the highest good, is the gratification of the human ego and individual desires. Marriage as defined by shared values and the perpetuation of future generations is no longer the reason for men and women to seek each other out. Queer Folks are cool and heterosexuality is suspect. Dennis Prager would argue in his revealing interview with Anna Montrose that the distance we've traveled in less than a generation shows how fragile the attachment to love and the family is if its not constantly nutured. The irony is that post-modern liberal heterophobia may well end up dooming to extinction the very people who now revel in it.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
15 posted on 04/18/2005 10:43:52 PM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: little jeremiah
I asked Dr. Throckmorton the same question. Here's what he said in response:
I have shown it to my 7th grade daughter but she is exposed to a lot given my ministry. I would say mature 8th graders but in a group, I think high school is a good age.
Use your best discretion...
16 posted on 04/18/2005 10:45:09 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: scripter

I wonder if LUG alums conrtribute well?


17 posted on 04/18/2005 10:45:49 PM PDT by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: scripter

Whatever Dr. Throckmorton says, I would trust. I bookmarked the link, I'll get to ordering it when my "ship" comes in.

We live from check to check, but there isn't any regularity to the system.

:-)


18 posted on 04/18/2005 10:48:35 PM PDT by little jeremiah (Resisting evil is our duty or we are as responsible as those promoting it.)
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To: scripter

Ain't schools just freakin' ducky?

They take a generally well adjusted young woman and create....this.

disgusting.


19 posted on 04/18/2005 10:51:20 PM PDT by trubluolyguy ("If the enemy is in range, so are you")
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To: little jeremiah

I'll be ordering at least 10 additional copies and I'll send you one when they arrive. When ordering 10 or more you get them at a 40% discount ($12 each), plus shipping. Unfortunately the shipping takes 4-6 weeks... I'll try to put the order in this week.


20 posted on 04/18/2005 10:51:46 PM PDT by scripter (Tens of thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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