She is dead because she married the wrong person.
So it is her fault? Where do you get your logic?
And Schiavo is now a widower, because he married a woman who died before he did. LOL more of your logic!
I suppose MS is also a 'grieving' widower. Gee, how long do you think he will grieve before he takes up with another woman and has some children?
He married a woman, and then he had her put to death - that is how it happened. She didn't died of natural causes.
Of course at the very beginning its her fault. It is a woman's duty to pick the right spouse, or she may endanger her own life and that of her children. This is no different than saying, "She never should have married him."