[Pan_Yans Wife]

Of course at the very beginning its her fault. It is a woman's duty to pick the right spouse, or she may endanger her own life and that of her children. This is no different than saying, "She never should have married him."

[presently no screen name]

Guess what - you NEVER know what evil lurks in the minds of men. So you should not be so sure of what you have next to you. More so, since you say - it's was Terri's fault and she is to blame for her own death because of her choice. What you are sowing on Terri's behalf is not nice - but what you sow you reap. Our words mean something and we are responsible for them - not wise to make that statement concerning Terri - if you don't want that statement to be your eulogy someday.