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Public School Is Too Strict; Socialization Muted
The Lakeland Ledger ^ | Thursday, April 14, 2005 | Letter to editor

Posted on 04/14/2005 5:58:52 AM PDT by Sam's Army

Public School Is Too Strict; Socialization Muted

My home-schooled granddaughter and I went to have lunch with my public schooled granddaughter at her school recently. She wanted us to come have lunch with her. It cost $2.50 for me and $1.50 for granddaughter.

It sure wasn't like when we went to school. None of the kids were allowed to talk at all to each other during their lunch hour.

After they finished eating, they had to read a book that they brought with them.

There were monitors with eyes roving to and fro. If they order milk, they are forced to drink it all. It seemed to me more like I was in a prison cafeteria.

They had to get in no-talking lines to arrive and to leave, all in the same uniforms, and no talking of course, even in the rest rooms.

If they talk in lines, they have to go to the principal's office.

I sure didn't see much socialization going on there.

My home-schooled granddaughter and I were glad to get out of there, and step back into freedom.

FRAN GRINER

Lakeland


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; News/Current Events; US: Florida
KEYWORDS: homeschool; publicschooling; silentlunch
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This was a letter to the editor of a central Florida newspaper. For those that seem to believe that homeschooling will cause detriment to social skills, here's another perspective.
1 posted on 04/14/2005 5:58:53 AM PDT by Sam's Army
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To: 2Jedismom

ping


2 posted on 04/14/2005 5:59:51 AM PDT by Sam's Army (Fight them)
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To: Sam's Army

That was supposedly in a public school? Why do I doubt it.


3 posted on 04/14/2005 6:01:58 AM PDT by ladyjane
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To: Sam's Army

Hmm, no talking, uniforms, strict discipline - sounds like a 19th Century British boarding school. Maybe kids will learn something now.


4 posted on 04/14/2005 6:02:17 AM PDT by Waterleak (I pity the fool)
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To: Sam's Army

Hmm, no talking, uniforms, strict discipline - sounds like a 19th Century British boarding school. Maybe kids will learn something now.


5 posted on 04/14/2005 6:02:42 AM PDT by Waterleak (I pity the fool)
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To: ladyjane

Uniforms are standard for that county up to high school.


6 posted on 04/14/2005 6:02:45 AM PDT by Sam's Army (Fight them)
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To: Waterleak

Really? What will they learn at lunchtime by not talking? Does your company not allow you talk at lunch with colleagues?


7 posted on 04/14/2005 6:04:55 AM PDT by Sam's Army (Fight them)
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To: Waterleak

You mean a "PUBLIC" School....


8 posted on 04/14/2005 6:05:16 AM PDT by Little_shoe ("For Sailor MEN in Battle fair since fighting days of old have earned the right.to the blue and gold)
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To: Sam's Army

Ms Fran, does your grandchild attend Hong Kong Sze Yap Commercial and Industrial Association Chan Nam Chong Memorial College? Schools in Hong Kong are very much like that but even they allow chatterings during lunchtime.


9 posted on 04/14/2005 6:06:32 AM PDT by NZerFromHK ("US libs...hypocritical, naive, pompous...if US falls it will be because of these" - Tao Kit (HK))
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To: Waterleak

Schools in New Zealand still wear uniforms. And it is even more so in Hong Kong, where discipline in schools is famously strict.


11 posted on 04/14/2005 6:07:44 AM PDT by NZerFromHK ("US libs...hypocritical, naive, pompous...if US falls it will be because of these" - Tao Kit (HK))
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To: Sam's Army

When will the kids find the time to tease and bully the other children?... or catch up on the latest gossip?...or talk about the "popular" kids or Brittney? Poor little things.


12 posted on 04/14/2005 6:07:47 AM PDT by Lekker 1 ("There is not the slightest indication that nuclear energy will ever be attainable"- Albert Einstein)
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To: FrPR

I agree, but it is supposedly a grandmother writing it, so I cut her some slack.


13 posted on 04/14/2005 6:07:55 AM PDT by Sam's Army (Fight them)
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To: ladyjane
Why would you "doubt" a first-hand account?

I can assure you that up here in WV in public schools, the same no-talking rule held for lunch hour in elementary schools as well. They also had a strict no-talking rule in classroom except when the teacher gave the OK, and I was there on one occasion when the kids were deprived of their 15 minute recess period because several kids had talked.

The teachers are of course doing this for the greater good.

14 posted on 04/14/2005 6:08:09 AM PDT by wildandcrazyrussian
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To: Sam's Army

If you think lunchtime's bad, you should be there when they study butterfly ballots...


15 posted on 04/14/2005 6:08:45 AM PDT by WestTexasWend
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To: Sam's Army
I'm just not seeing a real problem here. The students ate, read and lined up orderly. What would have been better? Students yelling, throwing food, cussing teachers while wearing skimpy clothing?


Sounds like a school with a clue of how to keep order and have an environment where learning can take place.


It would have been nice if the author could have stayed a full day and commented on what went on the rest of the day.

16 posted on 04/14/2005 6:09:39 AM PDT by SoftballMominVA
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Well, if they get out of line and dare to talk, I'm sure a quick diagnosis by the school nurse of ADHD will fix them up with the right meds real quick.

Did you manage to talk in school and not bully anyone at the same time?

17 posted on 04/14/2005 6:10:40 AM PDT by Sam's Army (Fight them)
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To: Sam's Army

This does not pass the smell test. No names, no specifics, impossible to enforce rules (no talking in rest rooms)

If the writer has a complaint, take it to the School Board.


18 posted on 04/14/2005 6:14:08 AM PDT by MindBender26 (Having my own CAR-15 meant never having to say I was sorry......)
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To: SoftballMominVA
You think they would act out that bad if allowed to talk during lunch?

Did you?

19 posted on 04/14/2005 6:15:12 AM PDT by Sam's Army (Fight them)
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To: NZerFromHK

I know, I used to attend Puketapu primary school in New Plymouth, in my younger days.


20 posted on 04/14/2005 6:15:15 AM PDT by Waterleak (I pity the fool)
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