Good post. People need to learn how to read non verbal communication, which is hard with the internet but not impossible if you keep up with the details shared. When there are red flags you have to learn to trust your instincts. I had a couple of bad experiences with online dating and have sworn it off for me. I do know people who have met online and are happy as a lark though.
Agree....People have had good and bad experiences wether meeting a person on-line or in-person. You can meet a person in a bar they can either be a half way decent human being or a rip roaring drunk.
Use your instincts..
I can tell you after being on FR 2 years there are some folks I can see myself being friends with in-person, then there are some that would be an absolute NIGHTMARE to meet in person! LOL...
Actually I did meet one freeper in person and we have turned out to be pretty good friends..
I think the important part is to keep it light during online discussion, and put off most off the real communication until you've met a few times. Don't invest too much of yourself until you know the person. Online communication spawns pseudo-intimacy.