Agree....People have had good and bad experiences wether meeting a person on-line or in-person. You can meet a person in a bar they can either be a half way decent human being or a rip roaring drunk.
Use your instincts..
I can tell you after being on FR 2 years there are some folks I can see myself being friends with in-person, then there are some that would be an absolute NIGHTMARE to meet in person! LOL...
Actually I did meet one freeper in person and we have turned out to be pretty good friends..
I have some friends who have used match.com and have met some very nice people. They did meet a few who were married, however.