I think the important part is to keep it light during online discussion, and put off most off the real communication until you've met a few times. Don't invest too much of yourself until you know the person. Online communication spawns pseudo-intimacy.
That is true. I just have had too many experiences with the pathological liars or married fellas just looking for a good time to invest in any online relationship at this time. I could change my mind later but right now I am sticking to local yahoos. LOL I at least can check out their family and friends and make sure they are on the up and up.