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Playing God [Robert Schindler Yanks Plug on Own Mother]
Guardian Unlimited (The Guardian Online) ^ | Tuesday November 4, 2003 | Suzanne Goldenberg

Posted on 03/27/2005 1:30:00 PM PST by Gondring

For 13 years Terri Schiavo has been in a coma - with her husband, her parents, the Christian right and now the president's brother locked in a bitter struggle over her fate. This week could see a final decision on whether she lives or dies. Suzanne Goldenberg reports from Florida


The woman's eyes are open in the video. She slowly rolls her head along the pillow, keeping up a constant low moan, as a man's arm dangles a metallic balloon overhead. "Look over here, Terri," a male voice says. "Can you follow that at all?"

The medical community and Florida's courts are convinced that Terri Schiavo can't, and, indeed, that she will never be able to recapture even this degree of cognitive ability. So too is her husband, Michael Schiavo. Over the years, he has tried three times to remove her feeding tube.

But Terri's parents, Mary and Robert Schindler, say she can improve, and have collaborated with the Christian right in America to turn this very private tragedy into a national pro-life pageant. Using the internet, press and Christian radio and television shows, anti-abortion groups have turned Terri's catastrophic loss into a major political gain, expanding the parameters of the pro-life debate.

This week could provide the last act. After a decade of exhausting every legal measure - and all the furore the Christian right can rustle up - the Schindlers have arrived at the final round of their struggle with their son-in-law for control of Terri's destiny.

A judge is deliberating whether to strike down so-called "Terri's Law" - a last-minute reprieve pushed through the Florida legislature by the state governor and presidential brother, Jeb Bush, that forced the hospital to resume feeding Terri two weeks ago.

Terri's Law, condemned by civil libertarians, the legal and medical community, and queasy state legislators, was the Schindlers' last hope. If it fails, the feeding tube will be removed, and Terri will slowly starve to death.

None of this has penetrated through to Terri. In February 1990, aged 26, she suffered a heart attack, brought on by acute potassium shortage caused by bulimia. By the time the ambulance arrived, her brain had been deprived of oxygen for six minutes. She has remained in what doctors call a persistent vegetative state ever since. Her eyes are open, her limbs are contracted, she smiles and grunts occasionally, but without any sense of purpose, according to the majority medical opinion presented to the courts.

But even in that seemingly senseless form, Terri's parents were able to discern a remarkable power within their semi-comatose daughter. Over the years, as successive judges refused their demand to be put in control of Terri's destiny, the Schindlers have enlisted the support of the Christian right to challenge court verdicts that have gone in her husband's favour. In the process, they have turned her into an unwitting heroine for the pro-life movement, and a convenient foil for Governor Bush.

With a year to go before the 2004 elections, Brother Bush has been keeping a weather eye out for causes that would mobilise the pro-life movement. Earlier this year, he outraged legal opinion by intervening to prevent a severely disabled woman, who had been raped in a state institution, from obtaining an abortion. Terri's case has proved as enticing a cause - and the Schindlers are extremely cooperative.

From their rented camper van across the road from the hospice, they have presided over prayer vigils and power rallies, pumping up the emotions in the campaign to keep their daughter alive by smuggling out videos of Terri in her bed, and making them available on the internet. Although her father, Robert, claims that he hates the circus that has developed around his daughter, he seems well practised at delivering his pitch. The fight for her life, the argument goes, is the fight for disabled people across America.

"People are being executed every day. I don't mean by the law. I mean executed by being starved to death - mainly the elderly, and people with Alzheimer's," says Robert. "There is a big, dark secret out there."

His other daughter, Suzanne Carr, who is five years younger than Terri, is more expansive. "This whole notion of doing away with a group of people who don't contribute to society or who can't feed themselves or who are expensive to maintain, that is bizarre, that is crazy," she says. "You might as well put down handicapped people."

It is difficult to know quite what Michael Schiavo makes of all this. As the Schindlers sit in their camper van discussing TV talkshow schedules, he has been all but silent, granting one interview in two years. And so, while one version of Terri's life - the one peddled by the Schindler family - remains well known, there is nothing forthcoming from the person who arguably knew her best: Michael, her husband of six years.

To hear the Schindler family tell it, the trajectory that led to Terri's tragic existence can be traced to her years as an awkward, overweight teenager in the suburbs of Philadelphia. Suzanne produces a sheaf of pictures of a chubby child and teenager, smiling at the camera from behind large spectacles. In the family's authorised version of events, the extra weight made Terri painfully shy.

She emerged from her shell only after slimming down in high school, and was still not entirely sure of herself when she started at a local college in the Philadelphia area. Within a few months, she had met Michael and fallen deeply in love - although perhaps not enough for Suzanne's standards. "He was the first guy to pay attention to her, the first guy to say, 'I love you', and so she married him," she says.

Nowadays, the Schindlers can barely avoid mentioning Michael's name without writhing in hatred. They have reinforced their accusations that he is neglecting Terri by suggesting that he tried to murder her, and that she was a victim of domestic violence.

The Schindlers' lurid accounts of abuse and neglect don't seem to tally with past events. In the early years of their marriage, Michael appeared to be on good terms with the Schindlers. The young couple lived in the Schindlers' condo after settling in Florida in the mid-80s. After Terri's accident, Michael and the Schindlers shared living quarters and the burden of care for Terri.

Those family bonds snapped in 1993 - the same year that a court awarded Terri $1m in a medical malpractice suit, and granted her husband authority over the money to use for her care. Each party now accuses the other of trying to get their hands on the funds. The cash question became even more urgent four years later, when Michael arrived at his momentous decision to end his wife's life. If Terri died, he would inherit the funds remaining in the malpractice suit; so long as she lived, the Schindlers had a hope of challenging his guardianship over Terri, and his control of the money.

By 1997, when Michael was set to remove the feeding tube for the first time, the stage was set for an epic confrontation. It is unclear what led to the change of heart, but Scott Schiavo, Michael's elder brother, says he arrived at the decision soon after the painful death of his own mother. "It sort of woke him up when he was watching my mother die," he says. "One day he just stood up and said: 'I can't do this any more. I can't do this to Terri.'"

Six years later, it has come down to this: videos of a stricken woman on the internet, accusations of murder, and lining up television interviews in a rented trailer.

Today, the Schindlers are spending much of the afternoon with a crew from the Christian Broadcasting Network, operated by the evangelist Pat Robertson. There is no question which side the CBN is on. "There is a spiritual battle going on. There is a pro-death movement out there right now, and it nearly killed Terri," says reporter Wendy Griffith. "From our perspective, it is a spiritual battle. It basically comes down to good and evil, life and death."

Outside the Christian right, such clarity over Terri's fate - or indeed the best recourse for any person condemned to live for years with virtually no brain function - is generally difficult to obtain.

But, given the vehemence with which he has been fighting to prolong Terri's life, it is a little surprising to learn that Robert decided to turn off the life-support system for his mother. She was 79 at the time, and had been ill with pneumonia for a week, when her kidneys gave out. "I can remember like yesterday the doctors said she had a good life. I asked, 'If you put her on a ventilator does she have a chance of surviving, of coming out of this thing?'" Robert says. "I was very angry with God because I didn't want to make those decisions."


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: applesandoranges; cultureofdeath; hysterria; oldarticle; schiavo; schindler; terrischiavo; trollalert
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To: DollarCoins
It doesn't matter if you 'believe' Terri is terminal. She only became terminal when they took away her food and water.

You'd be terminal too, in that case, wouldn't you?

MS's word is NOT proof. It's hearsay. There is no proof that Terri wanted to die. NO LEGAL PROOF.

241 posted on 03/30/2005 8:45:21 AM PST by ohioWfan ("If My people, which are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray.....")
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To: DollarCoins
Pardon me,but you are new here,so let me guide you to the Terri information Page!

His testemony is hearsay and he only remembered this after 7 years and after he won a settlement for melpractice on her behalve!

I am not sure how familiar you are with this case,but I've been following this from the beginning and I disagree with you.
242 posted on 03/30/2005 8:48:50 AM PST by Mrs.Nooseman
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To: ohioWfan

"MS's word is NOT proof. It's hearsay. There is no proof that Terri wanted to die. NO LEGAL PROOF"

Evidently there is legal proof and several courts have ruled so. Moreover, it is not just MS who has said it was Terri's wish, there was also testimony from friends.


243 posted on 03/30/2005 8:50:03 AM PST by DollarCoins
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To: Mrs.Nooseman

"I am not sure how familiar you are with this case,but I've been following this from the beginning and I disagree with you."

Well then we disagree. I am sure we agree on mant other issues


244 posted on 03/30/2005 8:51:31 AM PST by DollarCoins
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To: DollarCoins
Read up on the case, DC, and get back to us.

(And don't just use the mainstream media to get your 'facts,' OK? They lie).

245 posted on 03/30/2005 8:57:40 AM PST by ohioWfan ("If My people, which are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray.....")
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To: DollarCoins
We shall see!

BTW,How come the other people that testified , were all friends of MS and no friends of Terri?

All of Terri's friends said that she never did say anything like it!

If I wouldn't want to live like that, I would make sure that my parents,brother and sister would know about it as well,especially if I was that close to my family as Terri is to hers!
246 posted on 03/30/2005 9:03:07 AM PST by Mrs.Nooseman
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To: Mrs.Nooseman; ohioWfan

Uh, do you know what "hearsay" means? There are plenty of threads that explain that this is NOT hearsay.


247 posted on 03/30/2005 4:54:18 PM PST by Gondring (Pretend you don't know me...I'm in the WPPFF.)
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To: Mrs.Nooseman
All of Terri's friends said that she never did say anything like it!

Hmmm...so you tell your friends everything you tell your husband? They know your thought processes and preferences as well as he?

248 posted on 03/30/2005 5:22:22 PM PST by Gondring (Pretend you don't know me...I'm in the WPPFF.)
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To: Gondring
If it's not in writing, signed by Terri Schiavo, it's only what Michael SAID she said.......not documented legal evidence, but only hearsay, and should not be legal grounds to murder her. Period.

No one should be denied life based on one person's word that it's "what she would have wanted" when other people who know her well strongly disagree.

The laws that allowed this travesty of everything that is right and good in this country, need to be changed so that this can never happen again.

249 posted on 03/30/2005 5:49:44 PM PST by ohioWfan ("If My people, which are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray.....")
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To: sittnick
failed kidneys and a respirator call for EXTRAORDINARY MEASURES

Kidneys can be transplanted. Did Bobby boy consider giving Mumsy one of his? Nooooo. Just got mad at God. One lousy week was all he gave to consider his Mom's options? It's been 15 years with Terri. This is absolute proof that this whole thing is driven by those who are financially supporting the Schindler clan. Bob Schindler probably hasn't had a payday like this since he collected his mother's life insurance benefits.

250 posted on 04/01/2005 6:38:55 AM PST by RGSpincich
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To: RGSpincich; BlackElk
failed kidneys and a respirator call for EXTRAORDINARY MEASURES

Kidneys can be transplanted. Did Bobby boy consider giving Mumsy one of his? Nooooo. Just got mad at God. One lousy week was all he gave to consider his Mom's options? It's been 15 years with Terri. This is absolute proof that this whole thing is driven by those who are financially supporting the Schindler clan. Bob Schindler probably hasn't had a payday like this since he collected his mother's life insurance benefits.


A kidney transplant is an extraordinary measure.
One more time:
Florida law notwithstanding, food and water are NOT medical treatment. Nor are they extraordinary measures.

And, of course, the big payday goes not to the Schindlers but to the husband who has worked incessantly for his wife's death after spending the malpractice money for her treatment on lawyer to kill her.

The Schindlers behavior is consistent with orthodox Catholic teaching, and they took on financial hardship for eight years or more to help Terri.

If you believe that Robert Schiavo not donating a kidney is "absolute proof" that he is not acting on principle but out of a desire for money, you either do not know what proof is, or you have yet to study logic.

This argument is a "red herring." Schiavo not taking extraordinary means (and we don't know for a fact that he did not investigate it, we are just assuming that. Often blood types don't match, etc., or the woman may have been to frail to survive a transplant.) has nothing to do with the ordinary means of food and water.

Oh, and finally, don't assume his mother had any life insurance benefits. My own mother took care of my grandmother for the last 10 years in her own house, suffering from dementia. She did not even know who my mother was for the last two or three years. But her teeth were taken care of, she was "changed" regularly, and she never, ever wanted for food or drink. There was no insurance, and grandma's old house sold for $65,000, split among three siblings after my grandmother died piecefully at 97. I don't think my mom was in it for the money.

Not everybody is in it for the money. The Schindlers loved their daughter, and it shows how weak the Mike Schiavo supporters arguments are when they attack the Schindlers instead of asking the fundamental question, is it right to dehydrate a person to death. Even if the Schindlers were in Mike Schiavo's corner, the answer is no. The fact that they suffered greatly for their daughter simply reflects well on them.
251 posted on 04/01/2005 8:04:52 AM PST by sittnick (There's no salvation in politics.)
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To: Gondring
"But, given the vehemence with which he has been fighting to prolong Terri's life, it is a little surprising to learn that Robert decided to turn off the life-support system for his mother. She was 79 at the time, and had been ill with pneumonia for a week, when her kidneys gave out. "I can remember like yesterday the doctors said she had a good life. I asked, 'If you put her on a ventilator does she have a chance of surviving, of coming out of this thing?'" Robert says. "I was very angry with God because I didn't want to make those decisions."

Ahem- a feeding tube is not the same as life support, given the fact that the English language came from Great Britain, you would think that they understand their own language. Terri was not on life support she used a feeding tube to eat.

252 posted on 04/01/2005 8:09:39 AM PST by youngtory (The Conservative Party of Canada is no longer conservative all thanks to Harper.)
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