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To: LauraleeBraswell
If you are thinking about divorce before you get married, then you probably shouldn't get married.

Usually true.

A different scenerio however can occur. Try this one;
A man and woman meet young, marry, have a wonderful life together, and raise a few nice children. They are financially sucessful as well. One dies. A few years pass, and the person meets and contemplates marriage again to a new person.

Some people are so good at hiding their real intentions that it makes perfect sense to figure out a way to start fresh, segregating all their assets so they can be left to the children instead of someone else who had nothing whatsoever to do with earning the assets.

If there was a 1% chance of anything going wrong, and there always is, it would be stupid to not make sound logical plans.

I would not contemplate being wed again if the terrible scenerio took place, but I have no ill feelings for those who do.

98 posted on 03/16/2005 7:58:26 AM PST by Protagoras (If the Republican Party enacts a new tax they will be out of power for at least a generation)
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To: Protagoras

Happened to a friend of mine. When his grandfather died who himself was very wealthy, quite a few family heirlooms were earmarked to his grandchildren. Their grandmother died and he remarried but didn't do a prenup. After the grandfater died, the step-grandmother told his grandchildren that if they wanted the heilooms, they would have to buy them off of her. She also filed a lawsuit to get the grandfather's will thrown out of court since he earmarked the money in a trust for his kid/grandkids. She lost but it cost a lot of the kids inheritance. What a b*tch.

Again, I will do a prenup if I get married again. It is my assets and I will not put up with a black robe dictating how it is distributed in divorce based on his reason of "protecting Society's view".

>>If you are thinking about divorce before you get married, >>then you probably shouldn't get married.
>
>Usually true.
>
>A different scenerio however can occur. Try this one;
>A man and woman meet young, marry, have a wonderful life >together, and raise a few nice children. They are >financially sucessful as well. One dies. A few years pass, >and the person meets and contemplates marriage again to a >new person.
>
>Some people are so good at hiding their real intentions >that it makes perfect sense to figure out a way to start >fresh, segregating all their assets so they can be left to >the children instead of someone else who had nothing >whatsoever to do with earning the assets.
>
>If there was a 1% chance of anything going wrong, and there >always is, it would be stupid to not make sound logical >plans.
>
>I would not contemplate being wed again if the terrible >scenerio took place, but I have no ill feelings for those >who do.


101 posted on 03/16/2005 8:21:00 AM PST by CORedneck
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To: Protagoras
""A man and woman meet young, marry, have a wonderful life together, and raise a few nice children. They are financially sucessful as well. One dies. A few years pass, and the person meets and contemplates marriage again to a new person.""

That situation is different. You have children involved.
120 posted on 03/16/2005 11:22:29 AM PST by LauraleeBraswell ( CONSERVATIVE FIRST-Republican second.)
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