If you are thinking about divorce before you get married, then you probably shouldn't get married.
"If you are thinking about divorce before you get married, then you probably shouldn't get married."
A principle that should be in the handbook of every practicing adult.
Usually true.
A different scenerio however can occur. Try this one;
A man and woman meet young, marry, have a wonderful life together, and raise a few nice children. They are financially sucessful as well. One dies. A few years pass, and the person meets and contemplates marriage again to a new person.
Some people are so good at hiding their real intentions that it makes perfect sense to figure out a way to start fresh, segregating all their assets so they can be left to the children instead of someone else who had nothing whatsoever to do with earning the assets.
If there was a 1% chance of anything going wrong, and there always is, it would be stupid to not make sound logical plans.
I would not contemplate being wed again if the terrible scenerio took place, but I have no ill feelings for those who do.
As you are 18, I'll forgive your ignorance. At the age of 41 (first marriage at 28) I know people change. But men should plan for divorce. Because the courts kill them, especially if there are children involved. I know.