Posted on 03/09/2005 9:47:25 AM PST by qam1
LOL! I remember when I was 12 or so in the mid-70s and I came out of the house for church one Sunday wearing jeans--rolled up to the calf--english riding boots and a a paisley, 3/4-sleeve peasant blouse. My dad had a cow. Mom was out of town so I thought I'd wear what I wanted. Luckily, we were running late and I didn't have time to change.
You sound like my husband - is that you honey?
Honestly - my husband feels the same way - he dresses very well because his mother taught him to take pride in his appearance. Even though he wears jeans, they are clean and neat. He insists we all dress up for church (no jeans!) and we make the kids wash their faces and change if we are going out to eat or visit realtives, etc. Our kids are like most - messy - but we try to make the presentable!
That was a well-stated post.
I'm with you. I just don't starch mine anymore. And I wouldn't wear them to anything dressier than 'Texas Casual'.
Opera as "formal" is a social construct, don't you LOVE that Marxist phrase....
Originally they WERE popular entertainment back in the day. Much like rock concerts today. Every lil' burg and village had their opera house, which was like the old barns they convert to community theaters today. No one cared who wore what.
Back when they were written, your average Hans or Giovanni went to La Scala or Der Sofiensaal, they wore whatever.
It's sad that you have to. People used to know what to wear to a wedding. Have you sent out the invitations yet? Maybe put "formal attire" on the invites?
Of course, few people know what "formal" means anymore. A clean baseball cap, maybe?
Uh no, let's nip this myth in the bud. Jeans at a wedding or funeral is NOT generally accepted here in Texas.
To each his own, and if your relative's were comfortable with that at their functions, good for them. But most Texans(like anywhere else) consider it tacky and bad taste to show up in jeans at formal functions. We're friendly enough to still be nice, and prefer that people attend even if they don't own suites, but we aren't hillbillies, either. Except for the occassional goof that takes a perverse pride in showing how 'down to earth and 'real' Texan' they are, walking around in extra big hats and odd boots. And we all laugh at them as eccentric showboaters.
"It is NEVER appropriate to wear jeans to a church service."
IMO, God doesn't care what you're wearing. The purpose of going to church is to worship God, so why would someone care what everyone else is "wearing". Judge not.
Hey baby, they don't call us Stinkadena fer nuthin'!! ;-)
In Alaska, many funerals are attended by folks wearing jeans....and sweaters....and even bunny boots. When we attended the funeral of a dear friend a couple of years ago, just about everyone came wearing the same clothes they would have worn to sit and chat with our friend. We have no doubt Mike would have approved. :)
If they weren't sitting on the waistband, I'm guessing they were not the droopy type.
Since they were those back-to-back bench seats, no rear view was available, for which on balance I think I am thankful.
I took my girlfriend to the Boston philharmonic last month and we dressed to the 9's.
And anyone here who knows anything about me, knows that I'm a 25 year old, tattooed, punk rock guy!
But there is a time and a place for everything, some people have no class and show no respect for themselves. These are the people who wear jeans to the theatre!
It shows a lack of respect for the situation. If you can't afford anything other than jeans, that's one thing. However, if you own slacks and a collared shirt, why not put them on?
I agree with your assessment.
You clearly have good Jeans.
Regards,
PS: Men who wear jeans with an oxford shirt, tie, shoes (NOT sneakers) and a sportcoat look nice for going out to a movie and late dinner at a pub or something. But never EVER for a dinner date at a fancy restaurant.
"Jeans have their place. But, when I see a chump at a nice restaurant with his baggy jeans, ball cap, and flip flops I cannot really take him seriously, at any level. Same goes for the Opera or equally formal event. You don't have to be wealthy to put on a collared shirt and a pair of trousers. And the whole "I just want to be comfortable" mantra doesn't resonate with me; clothes that fit are comfortable clothes. Actually, denim doesn't breath well, and can hardly be called luxurious, as fabrics go. Wearing dungarees to formal events is just another expression of unisize, ahistorical, narcissistic, lazy, slob culture and should be mocked whenever possible."
BTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When I was a teenageer, I was a Southern Baptist (in the midwest). It was common for people to go to church wearing nice sweaters, tops etc. with jeans. When I became convicted that I needed to dress better, I was asked by many people, "Why are you so dressed up?" I was stunned.
Now, I attend a congregation that appreciates the fact they should conduct themselves before G-d at least as well as they would before the Pres. of the USA or HRH Queen Elizabeth.
"...their ensembles make them look more like a can of biscuits that blew up than little girls."
LOL! What a mental image!! Poppin' Fresh!
I typically wear a nice pair of Jeans and a shirt to Sunday Mass... And usually out to eat with my girl. The way I look at it is I have to dress up to go to work and when I am not working I just want to be comfortable.
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