Posted on 03/09/2005 9:47:25 AM PST by qam1
He wasn't and if there isn't enough to talk about, re jeans at the opera,then the thread should just die. High-pjackoing it didn't make it better.
Love ya too...talk with you later;I'm off to beddy bye now.
Amen to that. My wife is sizzling in 501s.
A TRUE male chauvinist makes his woman walk ten paces AHEAD of him... LOL!
Good night and God bless you and yours. :)
But the thread wasn't simply about people not dressing appropriately for the opera. It was about the coarsening of our society, the devolution of its standards of conduct, and the increasing lack of gentility. You might want to check out Letitia Baldridge's NYT commentary reminiscing about her shopping experiences.
Every time I see a teen girl who looks like she got started on her college beer binges about five years early, I wish I had the courage to walk up and say politely, "So. Who lied to you and told you that look is sexy?"
You're right. It sort of rolled along to engulf many different situations and issues. I find myself in an extremely unusual situation. My family knows how worried I am about what is becoming of our world. The lack of moral standards, lack of "gentility" (good word), and gosh, it's just awful these days. I worry about what sort of world my new grandchild will be facing. sigh
Anyhow, and here I am, on this thread, with some people thinking I'm one of the weirdos. My kids will get a real kick out of this. What's even stranger, is that my views about "judging people by their clothes" goes way back to what I was taught as a child. Taught by my folks, my grandparents, and our church. I think some folks are so riled up by the extreme fashion trends (some extremely tasteless) our young people are wearing that for anyone to even suggest that granny should be able to wear slacks to church is something they'll attack in their anger over other things.
Oh well, I'll check out that commentary you mentioned. Thanks for the tip. Good night now. :)
Yes, I'm a girl! :-) I keep forgetting that my screen name causes some confusion.
"As the twig is bent,so grows the tree."
I would hate to meet your parents then.
Thanks for the compliment.
My brother always tells me to "pick your battles carefully" - my nephew is 13 and has really curly long hair - he looks like Roger Daltry (sp?) of The Who in the 70's. I know a lot of people assume he is a punk kid, but he is a good student, a nice person and can kick butt on the guitar!
Quite correct, but the problem in this case is due to obesity, not wardrobe! If the young girls these days weren't so out of shape, these fashions might actually look attractive on them.
"You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. 26 Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean."
street preacher-Are you saying that because I attempt to look nice and show respect to the Lord by being clean that I am somehow unworthy? I'm not saying that someone not dressed appropriatly should be kicked out, either. And by appropriately, I do not mean spend all your money on high fashion and flaunt it. Not every aspect of life is found in the Bible. Traditions are also an important part of my life. We do special things as a family at Christmas and other holidays. Not because they are in the Bible but because our family enjoys those moments and we want to pass on the lessons learned to our kids. It's the same for how I dress myself and my kids when we go to a nice restaurant, to church, to a wedding/funeral, etc. Some occasions call for not wearing your play clothes or relaxed everyday duds. I don't dress nicely because I think someone is looking at me. I dress that way because I respect the solemnity of the Mass or occasion for which I attend.
Chena-I also live simply. I shop as little as possible. I don't work or shop, etc. on Sundays. I'm not into material things for my house, etc. For me, less is more. I donate gently used clothes and often buy clothes on sale with shelters, etc. in mind. I also tend my own garden and am teaching my children how to use and celebrate God's natural gifts to us. Despite our disagreements on what we wear to church, I think you and I would have a lot in common. Let's just agree to disagree.
Yep!
That's right---lash out because you made a mistake. Get out all that vitriol.
You miss the point. What random strangers think of me effects me not at all. Neither do your or their affectations of class. People with true class see past the clothing.
I think you miss the point. You're swimming against the tide, here: like it or not, how you present yourself in public matters. Scream at a wall if you want, but you'll never change this.
If you wish to dress to the nines to attend Carmen because you like to, or your date likes you to, or you enjoy the tradition of doing so, knock yourself out. But if the reason you are enduring that tux is just to project "class", then you are a phony. You are not classy, but class conscious.
Untrue. I dress for occasions that require it because I have respect for other people and the occasion. It's what people who wish to live in a polite, respectful society do.To put things in perspective, I am not a stuck-up stiff. In high school I was a mohawked hard-core punk. I have tattoos, and I had piercings---five in one ear alone. I ride a Harley. I'm a complete epicurean. I participate in FR WoD threads on the pro-pot side.
But I'm also a former naval officer who learned a thing or two about the importance of proper appearance and public image.
As it happens, by perverse fate, in our culture most of the "formal" clothes just so happen to be the most uncomfortable
Standards of formality change over time. That doesn't mean, however, that people should reject current standards.
The Bible isn't an etiquette manual. That's why God gave us ladies surnamed Post, Baldridge, and Vanderbilt. (Not to mention the incomparable Judith Martin.)
This is due to the liberal desire to reduce society to the lowest common denominator. That's why you see middle-class kids dressing like low-class street thugs.
Clothing says a lot about a person. Some posters here are in denial about that fact, it seems.
And it has nothing to do with money. Most people can't afford Prada or Armani, but how many Americans really can't afford to own some nice slacks, a couple of good dresses or a decent suit?
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