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Lessons From NYC Actress' Death (Nicole duFresne shouldn't have taunted mugger...)
CBS News ^ | February 3, 2005 | Tom Hays

Posted on 02/03/2005 6:00:06 PM PST by Gondring

As an actress, Nicole duFresne had roles in dozens of way-off-Broadway productions.

But it was an unfortunate real-life line witnesses say duFresne uttered before her slaying — "What are you going to do, shoot us?" — that has brought her to the public's attention.

Authorities have refused to speculate whether the 28-year-old actress and playwright's defiant stand against a bandit prompted him to shoot her to death last week on a New York City street.

"Regardless of what the victim said or did not say, the person responsible for her death is the one who pulled the trigger," Police Commissioner Raymond Kelly said earlier this week.

Safety advocates, however, have cited the case as a lesson in how not to respond to a holdup.

On Wednesday, the Washington-based National Crime Prevention Council responded to widespread reports about duFresne's last words by circulating a list of tips on how to survive a mugging.

"It demonstrates that confronting an attacker is probably the worst thing you can do," said council spokesman Todd Post.

DuFresne, a Minnesota transplant who had lived in Seattle before coming to New York, listed "stage combat" as one of her skills on her Internet resume. She was leaving a bar with her fiancé and another couple at about 3 a.m. Jan. 27 when they were accosted by a group of youths who had already tried to rob another person earlier in the evening.

Witnesses told police that when the group demanded the other woman's purse, duFresne responded with: "What are you going to do, shoot us?" Police said she also might have gotten into a brief shoving match with the shooter before he fired a bullet into her chest.

Police arrested the alleged triggerman, Rudy Fleming, 19, and two teenage girls they say took a cell phone and credit cards and helped hide the murder weapon. All three have been charged with murder and robbery.

On its tip sheet, the crime prevention council advises potential victims to stay cool and comply with robbers. At the same time, people should take mental notes on what the assailant looks like so they can provide a detailed description to police, the sheet says.

A robbery "is more about power than anything," said Alfonso E. Lenhardt, president of the nonprofit council, known for its McGruff the Crime Dog mascot.

"It's a tragedy, but in this case it sounds like (the suspect) felt he wasn't getting the respect he was due," Lenhardt said. "When a gun is in the hands of a desperate person with low self-esteem, they're going to react that way."

The others charged in the killing are Ashley Evans, 18, and Tatianna McDonald, 14. Two young men were charged in the earlier robbery attempt, while two other youths are considered by police to be witnesses.

A graduate of Emerson College in Boston, duFresne was a founding member of the Present Tense Theater Project and acted with the LAByrinth Theater Co., according to her online resume. She wrote a play called "Burning Cage" with Mary Jane Gibson, the woman with her and her fiancé at the time of the shooting.

"Burning Cage," about two women in an asylum who are targeted for brainwashing experiments with LSD, toured in 2002 at fringe theater festivals in Canada and the United States.

DuFresne's other play, "Matter," is about an amnesiac whose apartment is taken over by a violent and seductive intruder. It was performed in Brooklyn in 2003.


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; US: New York
KEYWORDS: blamethevictim; dufresne; lessons
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To: onyx

She didn't deserve to die. I suspect the boyfriend was a bit hammered too but my guess he's a wimpy little beotch all the time.


101 posted on 02/03/2005 6:39:10 PM PST by cyborg
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To: BigSkyFreeper



I WAS!


102 posted on 02/03/2005 6:40:13 PM PST by LauraleeBraswell ( There's no Double Talk from Dubya!)
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To: durasell
Everything in the lives of all concerned led up to that moment. None of them could have acted any different. It's one of those deals where everything changes in an instant because of a couple wrong choices.

So you're saying neither of them had control over their own lives? Odd.

103 posted on 02/03/2005 6:40:20 PM PST by BigSkyFreeper (Smoke-free since January 16, 2005)
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To: Gunrunner2
No. . .you just pull your own weapon and shoot them first!

And if you live in New York and don't own a gun, you should point your finger at them and shoot?! Or just shut up and let them rob you. I choose to shut up and let them rob me.

104 posted on 02/03/2005 6:40:57 PM PST by kcvl
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To: Alberta's Child
"I don't give a sh!t if she'd 14, either -- let her rot in prison."

Yup! The juvenile offender system in this country is a disaster. It encourages offenders to act with impunity.

Good post!

105 posted on 02/03/2005 6:41:06 PM PST by Radix (Oh look, Mrs McNabb, Mrs McNabb! The Patriots are coming to the Super Bowl.)
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To: durasell

Oh yes, but as with everything else, problems don't confine themselves to county lines. I wonder if the meth issue is being neglected because it's a 'rural problem' much in the same way crack was ignored till the suburban kids started trying some. OR OR OR maybe living in New York, it doesn't get the same coverage here as it would in the South or Midwest. News can't cover everything.


106 posted on 02/03/2005 6:41:43 PM PST by cyborg
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To: BigSkyFreeper

How about this: everyone concerned made the best decisions they could under the circumstances. Unfortunately, they all made crappy decisions.


107 posted on 02/03/2005 6:42:32 PM PST by durasell (Friends are so alarming, My lover's never charming...)
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To: cyborg

He's probably a linguine wristed, jelly spined Liberal. No one deserves to die, but with each action, there's an opposite reaction.


108 posted on 02/03/2005 6:43:55 PM PST by BigSkyFreeper (Smoke-free since January 16, 2005)
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To: BigSkyFreeper

Agreed.


109 posted on 02/03/2005 6:44:40 PM PST by cyborg
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To: cyborg

Just because you don't read about meth in The Times doesn't mean it isn't getting attention from law enforcement in rural communities. Because of my disreputable appearance and fondness for expensive rental cars, I've been pulled over by sheriff departments numerous times in rural areas.


110 posted on 02/03/2005 6:45:27 PM PST by durasell (Friends are so alarming, My lover's never charming...)
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To: cyborg; durasell
I hail from the former Meth capital of the world: San Diego,
and I am amazed it has taken 25 years to become
problematic throughout the US. It's easily made at home
and appeals to the speed freaks and the weight conscious, Twiggy wannabe's.

My physician husband calls it the devil's drug and he's right.

111 posted on 02/03/2005 6:45:41 PM PST by onyx ("First you look to God, then to Fox News" -- Denny Crane, Republican...lol.)
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To: durasell

I believe all involved were immature, regardless of their age.


112 posted on 02/03/2005 6:46:09 PM PST by BigSkyFreeper (Smoke-free since January 16, 2005)
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To: onyx

I thought Fontana was the meth capital of the world.


113 posted on 02/03/2005 6:46:41 PM PST by durasell (Friends are so alarming, My lover's never charming...)
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To: LauraleeBraswell
"Singapore...Everyone is capable of being a criminal."

Drunk drivers never drink with the intent, or inclination to kill. These people do and that's what you're missing.

114 posted on 02/03/2005 6:47:23 PM PST by spunkets
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To: BigSkyFreeper; opinionator
If harsher penalties don't deter crime, then why is Switzerland so safe?

Because everyone in Switzerland knows how to shoot a gun. Get it. A criminal knows if he tries to rob someone there is a chance he will be shot and killed,

That's the death penalty for you
115 posted on 02/03/2005 6:48:11 PM PST by LauraleeBraswell ( There's no Double Talk from Dubya!)
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To: BigSkyFreeper

That's true.


116 posted on 02/03/2005 6:48:12 PM PST by durasell (Friends are so alarming, My lover's never charming...)
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To: kcvl

Dying on your knees if no way to live.


117 posted on 02/03/2005 6:48:19 PM PST by Gunrunner2
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To: cyborg


Of course she didn't DESERVE to die,
but only the shooter can be blamed,
not her boyfriend.

I can visualize how fast it all came down.
The shooter freaked and it was a done deal.
Sobriety might have helped, but that too is speculation.


118 posted on 02/03/2005 6:48:45 PM PST by onyx ("First you look to God, then to Fox News" -- Denny Crane, Republican...lol.)
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To: Gondring

Nicole duFresne shouldn't have taunted mugger...)

Nobody can guarantee that she would be alive if she had kept silent.Her mistake seems to have been bar-hopping in the wrong neighborhood, but who can say?


119 posted on 02/03/2005 6:49:23 PM PST by OldEagle (Haven't been wrong since 1947, except about Hillary.)
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To: Milwaukeeprophet

If I didn't know better, I'd say you were an ignorant racist.


120 posted on 02/03/2005 6:49:36 PM PST by BigSkyFreeper (Smoke-free since January 16, 2005)
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