Hey good…yeah sure. Let’s all put our faith the your anecdotal self-serving evidence while defending the “honor” of your psychologically disordered kin. No body wakes up and decides to practice perversion; it’s generally a combination of situational stresses, which often includes molestation. I just wonder what happened in your brother’s life that caused it, have you ever asked him? Or was it peer influenced, do you know the people he hung around with growing up? Any of them “gay”? I just don’t understand why you don’t try and help him instead of wasting your time defending the faux “honor” of homosexuality. It’s like you’ve just given up and resigned yourself to accept what is objectively immoral, against nature and what is clearly still a pathology. I pity you.
But there are people (bi-sexual) who *ding ding ding* can make such a decision right now. In addition to this I think that just as anyone can become a crack addict (some easier than others) anyone can fall into this sickening lifestyle. Its not a matter of overnight changing your sexual identity, its life experiences and garbage being fed into all of your sences...
Again, and I don't know how many times we have to say this, the word choice can be a complicated word in this instance.
Show me a picture of the most attractive man in the world and I don't even get a twinge of arousal. I can't think of anything in the world that would make me want to voluntarily engage in homosexuality. So, the argument that a person can 'choose' to be gay holds no water with me. There has to be at least some predisposition towards homo- or bisexuality, IMHO.
You might also not choose to find eating twinkies for every meal enjoyable. But someone else might. Yet if they gave in to that temptation, no one would be running around saying 'it wasn't a choice - they were born that way.'
We may not choose what tempts us, but we do choose to resist or give in to that temptation.