Posted on 01/21/2005 4:29:58 AM PST by anotherview
Jan. 21, 2005 12:35 | Updated Jan. 21, 2005 13:41
Ella Abukasis, 17, laid to rest
By JPOST.COM STAFF
Eleven-year-old Tamir Abuksis, wounded in a Kassam rocket attack on Sderot, sits with his father, Yonatan, in the hospital. His sister, Ella Ayala Chaya, was killed in the attack as she shielded her brother
Photo: Channel 2
Prayers accompanied Ella Abukasis as she left the world Friday morning.
Abukasis, 17, died at 9:00 a.m. at the Soroka Medical Center in Beersheba. She was critically wounded when a Kassam rocket exploded as she and her siblings were returning from a Bnei Akiva youth group meeting in Sderot on Saturday.
As medics fought to stabilize the girl, she was taken first to Barzilai Hospital in Ashkelon and later brought to Soroka in Beersheba.
She was laid to rest at 12:30 p.m. on Friday in Sderot.
Her 11-year-old brother, Tamir, was also wounded in the attack, as shrapnel lodged in his head. He was spared a worse fate when his sister dove to protect him after hearing the warning siren.
"She protected him with her body, and now her blood stains are on his pillowcase. It was a miracle that he survived," Ella's father told Israel Radio.
Despite her serious condition, Ella's family refused to give up their hope.
According to the Jewish custom of adding names with positive connotations to seriously ill people, Ella became known as Ayala Chaya after the attack. "Chaya" means living.
Even after the doctors pronounced her brain dead Tuesday, the prayers continued outside her hospital room. There was a constant flow of visitors, both friends and family, as well as officials, like Sderot Mayor Eli Moyal.
Her father, Yonatan, spoke in an interview with Israel Radio on Friday morning. "The doctors said she was completely brain dead there was nothing that could be done. And even though she was gone, she left her entire body, full. It just looked like she was sleeping. But she wasn't."
He said that once he understood from doctors that it was the end, he had to check into the halachic (Jewish legal) implications.
Yonatan said that at least his daughter merited that "the most prominent rabbis of our day decided when to return her soul." The family consulted with rabbis Mordechai Eliyahu, Shlomo Amar, Ovadia Yosef, and Elyashiv.
Yonatan told the radio that the rabbis did not give an approval to disconnect his daughter from the machines, but they accepted the advice of Rabbi Dr. Halperin, who said that in the case of brain death, the connection must remain while the heart is slowly let to die. When the medications in the machines run out, they are not replenished.
Ella's medications ran out Thursday afternoon. At 9:00 a.m. Friday morning she passed away.
Yonatan Abukasis said that he is maintaining his strength, for himself, and "for the family."
Ella's sister Karen said it was very difficult to deal with her sister's death. Since Ella was rushed to the hospital, she's felt that everything was gone.
Karen said her sister was "everything": She liked to help and to do anything anyone asked of her.
Speaking from the hotel in Beersheba where she and her brother were staying, Karen expressed fear of returning to her home in Sderot.
Living under the constant barrages of Kassams "is very scary" she said, a short while before her sister's funeral was to take place.
A photo of Ella ABuksis, from Ha'aretz:
Well said. Thank you.
Another tragic loss caused by Paleistinian Murderers.
Outstanding comments. From your lips to G-d's ear.
Read Zechariah 12 in the Tanach, for that day is fast approching and it is a GREAT DAY for Judah, and Mankind.
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