Why Would Someone Choose To Be Gay? Maybe For The Same Reason Some Choose To Change Their Religion?

January 13, 2005

[EdReform]

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[gidget7]

My how indoctinated you are! It's too bad you have been so sucked in by all the lies.

[notigar]

what's getting shoved down your throat? Is someone telling you that you are going to hell for who you are attracted to? is someone threating to amend the Constitution to keep you from marrying? not letting you adopt?

[gidget7]

well, don't boys see getting some action for themselves as an even BIGGER turn on?

One would think so, but you would have to ask the guys about that LOL Most guys do think it's a turn on for two girls to kiss, no idea why, but it's (for some) a guy thing.

[notigar]

"no one ever said that parents abuse their kids."

Oh really? How about this: "How do you know this guy wasn't molesting his sons as early as their infancy or toddlerhood?"

From this thread.

[DCPatriot]

It's too bad you have been so sucked in by all the lies.

And what "lies" are those?

[notigar]

I know. But the turn-on isn't the end all. I don't think I've ever met a lesbian who got that way trying to turn guys on.

[gidget7]

Again, no indication of parent abuse, but abuse from SOMEONE!

More and more we read news of children sexually abusing/molesting other kids. These kids are not born with sexual knowledge, they learn it somewhere!

[longtermmemmory]

The only lesson that I get from those type of shows its that the last person I would trust for fashion design is a group of flamers.

actually correction, the last person I would trust would be a girlfriend who insists I take advise from a group of flamers.

As to the democrat party, 2004 sets them as the Democrat ("gay") Party permanently.

[gidget7]

I know. But the turn-on isn't the end all. I don't think I've ever met a lesbian who got that way trying to turn guys on.


You're probably right, however, there is a term well known in liberal college towns, "4 yr lesbian" only during college years. Who is to say some don't remain in the lifestyle? It does indicate again though, choice.

[Cultural Jihad]

Gay activists and their supporters often say, "Why would someone choose to be gay?"

Why would someone choose to have another urinate on them?

[gidget7]

Some posts, do not tend to be require a response, as the answer is completely obvious. Not buying into argument is the quickest way to eliminate it.

[notigar]

"Why would someone choose to have another urinate on them?"

to alleviate a jellyfish sting? or perhaps on a dare, for lots of cash?

[Edit35]

Do you really think you could have been 'turned gay'?

It's possible.

Some young teens develop a psychological propensity to try crime, such as stealing a bicycle or stealing clothes or a pack of cigarettes at the local store.

If they are successful at committing the crime, they get an adrenaline rush, just as they get an orgasmic rush when having gay sex.

Thus, they try it again and again.

Just as a misguided youth will turn into a hardened criminal, spending his waking hours thinking about crime, so will a misguided youth turn gay, spending their waking hours thinking about how to further gay relationships.

Much of it is sex driven initially, I believe. If a person gets their rocks off enough times, whether by a man or woman, they will change their sexual attitudes.

[gidget7]

There again, while the desire may not be a choice ie: to choose to desire, acting on that desire IS a choice.

[Diva Betsy Ross]

Some people may very well be homosexual by reason of genetics... but most homosexual folks today choose this lifestyle for it's inherent status as victim and the power they receive as a "gay" person.

[HostileTerritory]

I think anyone who bothers to think about how they feel about things sexually will come to realize that this is true.

Many of the people who believe that homosexuality is caused by molestation, or who believe that all homosexuals are likely molesters, were abused as children themselves. Hence the urgency and the strong feelings in their posts--their own personal experience with a homosexual was devastating emotionally. It's sad. I was reading one of these threads years ago and a bunch of people came together to admit their own secrets about what was done to them.

[Beemnseven]

"There again, while the desire may not be a choice. . ."

This statement contradicts the opening post. The studies cited indicate that the desires are what people supposedly have control over -- that homosexuals choose their desires. No one questions that acting on those desires is a cognitive choice. Most conservatives posting on this thread believe that the desire itself is not something anyone is born with.

[Semaphore Heathcliffe]

By my own admission, my sexual promiscuity for much of my adult life was sinful, unredeemed. The relative triviality that I was with women and not men has no bearing on the fact that I was living a condemned life. I admit that, take responsibility for it, and am now redeemed from such a lifestyle. No one told me I was going to hell for what I was doing; they didn't have to. But that didn't change the realities of my situation.

My own personal belief about marriage is that government has only a tenuous right to legislate marital legitimacy. That said, any society that legitmizes homosexual marriage is a society in decay. If enough people raise enough stink about their right to marry someone of the same sex, then it will eventually happen. That doesn't mean it's OK in any spiritual or psychological sense. It just means the lunatics have the asylum keys today.

Adoption: same basic philosophy as with marriage. If two people want to adopt, legally they should be able to. But as we are a society in decay, that reality misses the whole point. Homosexuals are by definition dysfunctionally developed with regard to relating. Men who do not know how to be men, women who do not know how to be women cannot be expected to optimally instill a healthy identity in adopted kids.

[notigar]

Thanks for your thoughtful reply.