I'm still waiting for an answer about how Jews' and other non-Christians' marriages being the "mirror image of Christ's love for the church"! :-)
I wondered about that, too. :) Doesn't seem fair to keep such knowlege from sinners like us, does it?
You're probably right.
You won't get an answer to your question about other non-Christian's any sooner than exnavychick or I will get an answer about how we're not "really" married because we didn't do it in a Church.