You're probably right.
You won't get an answer to your question about other non-Christian's any sooner than exnavychick or I will get an answer about how we're not "really" married because we didn't do it in a Church.
I think we have him on the run.
I think you are right. :) That's okay, because I don't need him to tell me I'm married, and I suspect you don't either. LOL