Yep, it's all about them.
Despicable, is what it is, IMO. But, after all, this is coming from a community that-for some, at least-having HIV/AIDS is a badge of honor. That alone tells me that a lot of gay men (weirdly enough, you don't hear about this concerning lesbians, I wonder why?) are mentally unbalanced. Who could possibly think deliberately exposing yourself and others to a deadly disease is HONORABLE??
They are free to get it on...but they need to keep the consequences to themselves!